I feel scared to date men again !

I got abused and betrayed by most people in my life .

What can I do because I crave a partner in my life .
I am scared to be abused and betaryed again .
Some even tried to murder me and involved innocent pets/animals in personal fights !

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Magicianzini · M

Don't be with anyone until you fix your problems - the ones that caused you to pick abusive people in the first place.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@Magicianzini self-hate , kindness/self sacrifical beliefs and low self esteem i believe .

Magicianzini · M

@sahi81 Sounds like you consider yourself a martyr - but it's even much worse than that. You're only just the other side to the abusive coin.