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I feel bad for not being attracted to this guy.

Started to talk to someone new. We get along really well. Its online tho. We watch movies, car shows, Bee shows, anime, etc. We game together, call daily, and just fet along well. But im not attracted to him. I wish i was. And idk what to do about it.
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If you aren’t leading him on then you’re both having fun and what’s wrong with that?
Tell him the truth if/when it comes up.

You don’t owe him anything, but I guarantee that he’s not just hanging out with you. He probably already caught feelings.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
That's rough. But it's not really something that can be forced. It would only lead to long term misery. Should probably talk to him about it if he seems to have romantic interest. There's a chance he bounces when he knows that avenue isn't there, but if he doesn't then you may end up with a pretty solid friend.

Be honest. And if honesty causes problems, then things would have broken down eventually anyways.
thevuemaster · 31-35, M
Let his ass go lol
Tenletters · 31-35, M
Star acting crazy and weird
Richard65 · M
He might be having exactly the same thoughts. No disrespect, but you're assuming the guy is talking to you because he's attracted to you romantically. I have a few female friends I get along with famously, but there's no mutual sexual attraction, we're friends. Just accept it as a friendship. You don't have to "do" anything about it.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@Richard65 i love this answer ❤
Ferric67 · M
I can’t imagine ever being attracted to someone you can’t see in person
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
Attraction is not a choice. We can’t fake it. Just be honest with him about the fact that he’s a friend and nothing more.

 
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