Softandsweet2 · 31-35, F
I think it would depend on the circumstances, if you worry about your ex partners feelings and are you ready to jump in again… If there aren’t any concerns, as soon as the door closes.
There's no set rule. That's up to you and you shouldn't feel guilty if you will feel more comforted moving on right away. Different people have different ways of closure and you can even make your own closure. I say go for it.
Kiesel · 56-60, M
Hmmm
I don’t think there’s necessarily a time table
But I believe we need to recalibrate ourselves and reset ourselves and be comfortable with that resetting time before getting into another relationship
I don’t think there’s necessarily a time table
But I believe we need to recalibrate ourselves and reset ourselves and be comfortable with that resetting time before getting into another relationship
4meAndyou · F
I think that depends on you. If you are still feeling terribly hurt, then you are on the rebound. Any serious relationship you try to build would be marred by a bad beginning.
Give yourself time to get over the anger and hurt. THEN go out and meet other people.
Give yourself time to get over the anger and hurt. THEN go out and meet other people.
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
@4meAndyou very sensible advice…thanks
If you want to be fair to any new partner then you should get over your relationship first, as @Jessmari said already. Nobody wants to be the rebound.
If it's just casual and/or sex then as soon as you like. Just bear in mind that what you do after a breakup might affect any chances of ever getting back together with that person. Not that you should focus on getting back together with them, it's just worth noting.
If it's just casual and/or sex then as soon as you like. Just bear in mind that what you do after a breakup might affect any chances of ever getting back together with that person. Not that you should focus on getting back together with them, it's just worth noting.
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
@ostfuidctyvm good advice
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
That would depend what the relationship was like. After my last one I just want to be on my own.
Jessmari · 46-50, T
When you are over the previous relationship. If not, then it's too soon.
YoMomma ·
I guess if you broke up it doesn't matter ?
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YoMomma ·
@ButterRobot if you didn't break up ? Hmmm 😳 if they move on before breaking up then that’s cheating eh?
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
@YoMomma oh…I meant if breaking up was their idea.
YoMomma ·
@ButterRobot oh i see.. i think it’s more about a reality check than time.. it takes different amounts of time for people to come to conclusions about things and realize what they want idk
twistedrope · 26-30, M
Before breaking up.
BrandNewMan · 61-69, M
Before you're really ready .. whether 12 months or 3+ yrs
When youre ready
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
There is no timeline when a person feels that they are ready to move on.
idontcareok · 70-79, M
a few seconds, why wait
Anniedlr · 31-35, F
12 seconds 😂😂😂😂😂
MayorOfCrushtown · M
depends on the circumstances of the breakup
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Ten minutes. Or as soon as you can get hard again.
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
When I broke up with my first girlfriend, it was so intense that I didn’t date anyone for seven years. Well, actually, I went out with a girl for a few months and another one for a few weeks but generally I felt like I still belonged to my first girlfriend.





















