zonavar68 · 56-60, M
You need to ensure both of you and the third person have equally shared trust as any amount of jealousy will ruin the moment. I've never had a threesome and the only opportunity to have one felt wrong since my first ex offered one to try and 'fix' that relationship (then she cheated on me anyway so it was done).
My second ex was hard enough to satisfy just in a twosome config.
My second ex was hard enough to satisfy just in a twosome config.
That could be a lot of fun. Are you thinking MFM or FMF? Just remember to discuss expectations thoroughly up front, what is in bounds and what is not. Just remember, many times fantasy does not match reality and feelings can get hurt - especially if she is more carnal with the other person or lets them do things they won't with you. Or if one really likes it and the other has second thoughts and wants to stop.
@VeronicaJane
I had MFM regular sessions with my friend and his wife for about a year.. it was lots of fun!!
When it ended it wasn’t an issue.
Still friends and still hanging out
I had MFM regular sessions with my friend and his wife for about a year.. it was lots of fun!!
When it ended it wasn’t an issue.
Still friends and still hanging out
Dayman · 31-35, M
@Onestarlitnight exactly how it should be my wife and I had this with my close friend it ended but we’re still friends
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
We have a female friend who we trust who we're considering so it'll probably be FMF, but I'm fine either way. Our friend has experience in 3somes, she loves em.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Ensure you’re both on the same page with feelings. Leave the expectations out if it as it’s different every time.
Poppies · 61-69, F
I regret more things I haven't done than things I have done, she said cryptically.
Sroonaka616 · 31-35, M
Try it. Find a friend who wants to join. Just be careful as it could end in a throuple or end the entire relationship.
If that's what both want, go for it. You only live once.
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
They can be a lot of fun if everyone is on the same page and into it.
helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
yes..make no boundaries and just go for it
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helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
@Billybob2 hahaha..thanks ..friend for a long time
@helenoftroy2000
I agree with this statement, don’t make any boundaries about what is allowed.
If you think that he or she might do something to someone else that hasn’t been done to you, get it done!
If you’re seriously considering this then you should prepare yourselves by first experimenting with everything a new partner might want, and practice them . This is a way to avoid resentment. You can always say honestly that you tried everything you could think of except that!! 🤣
I agree with this statement, don’t make any boundaries about what is allowed.
If you think that he or she might do something to someone else that hasn’t been done to you, get it done!
If you’re seriously considering this then you should prepare yourselves by first experimenting with everything a new partner might want, and practice them . This is a way to avoid resentment. You can always say honestly that you tried everything you could think of except that!! 🤣
helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
@Onestarlitnight it's either that or a script.. it helps if you know the other person, if not then no boundaries and expect everything...especially if it gets rough...or the othe person wants to do soemthing you didnt do and then jealousy starts.......either use a script..or let anything go
Dayman · 31-35, M
If it’s something you both want then make sure you set boundaries and go for it
Teslin · M
Since you are both interested, you can always try it once to see how it goes. Well, maybe twice:
MFM
FMF
MFM
FMF
MoveAlong · 70-79, M
I would love to, Uh you wouldn't mind waiting outside would you?
BillyMack · 46-50, M
It’s probably best to add a fourth. Monopoly with three people can get quite animated.
Convivial · 26-30, F
If that's what you both want ...
HappyCamper74 · M
YES! It'll be great!
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
Establish rules and limits with all involved parties. Have fun!
Matt85 · 36-40, M
seems like a bad idea. why would you want to share someone you love with someone else?
dale74 · M
Mmf or ffm
RedBaron · M
That’s not up to anyone but you.
AnnaWasHere · 22-25, FNew
Ask her if she wants to try airtight and invite two buddies over.
dale74 · M
@AnnaWasHere have you done this
dale74 · M
@FieldMarshal all holes filled
FieldMarshal · 46-50, M
@dale74 Oooo.
FieldMarshal · 46-50, M
Just get couple of toys snd try thaf, see how that goes.
Dayman · 31-35, M
@FieldMarshal that is a good start
CactusJackManson · 51-55, M
You, your right hand, and your left hand
FieldMarshal · 46-50, M
Check with Chat GPT, Gemini, Reddit and Ask Abby.
Hairlover · 41-45, F
lissah · 36-40, F
Wel then just do it. Lol. Why you asking us?
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
Sometimes a fantasy is best left a fantasy.
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@hippyjoe1955 That's a bit different from a 3some.
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
@Billybob2 Most couples in threesomes don't remain couples very long.
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@hippyjoe1955 Noted.
valobasa4ever · F
If you are looking for permission from SW world, you are not ready yet. </3
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@valobasa4ever I thought the point of this site was posts like this.
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Dayman · 31-35, M
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout that’s when you reveal your trap card and say her mom/sister
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout I'm cool with either MFF or FMM.