These are the guys who I tend to think put the responsibility of being loved onto someone else and refuses to do anything to make themselves lovable to themselves.
Yes, they will always be alone if they don't break free of this idea that others are responsible to provide love. One has to find the things that is attractive and loveable about themselves and embrace that. If they can't find anything to be loved and attracted by, that's a them problem. Change yourself to be the type of person who will attract what you feel you need/want. If that doesn't work, look inward and see where you weren't being authentic, where you could change, where you want to change. That is part of what dating is about. To see what it might be like to be with a certain type of person. If it doesn't work out, eh, it doesn't, but now you know that may not be what you truly want or need.
Sitting there moping about how you aren't being loved won't get you love. Being proactive in your life and nurturing the parts of you worth being loved for and letting them grow will.
Tinder doesn't work well for most men. The reasons why people are single vary a lot. Sure, there are billions of people in the world, but you can't ask them all out. In my area, there just aren't that many single women my age and they don't go out much, let alone talk to strange men.
it has a lot to do with compliments, women get them daily, men are lucky to get them Once a decade, why should we believe in ourselves if no one else does ?
@RoxClymer I have been clinically diagnosed with psychotic depression and am on medication from it. It's not always about appearance. I was so depressed I didn't care about my appearance or to be complimented.
@UltimateDemiGoddess and there's the difference, you were so depressed that you didn't care about compliments
we are depressed because we never receive any, not only do we not receive them as soon as we show the tiniest emotion or become Not the breadwinner, we get shit on for not making the money or being emotionally fragile.
have ever had a partner slam you for crying a single time?
@GuyWithOpinions that makes a lot of sense. I really hope these guys find the help they need because looking for sympathy without taking advice and making use of it is pointless
@UltimateDemiGoddess Hooefully, I mean look at me, I'm not exactly Brad Pitt, but I never had any problems getting a gf, but of course I'm also older Gen X, we used to say fuck it and go for it...
