What is it with every guy who says this

"I'll never find a girlfriend" "nobody else would love me" etc I have had messages and seen posts about guys feeling that way. Completely normal and good looking ones. Why so depressed and seriously there are billions of people in the world and online platforms like SW and dating sites like Tinder. Please don't be lazy and negative.

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NativePortlander1970

They're insecure, most likely from a broken home or not loved and guided while growing up.

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@NativePortlander1970 I struggle to feel sorry for them as some are in much better situations (parents together, own a home etc) and still have those issues. There are places to get help and they should try for themselves. Hiding behind self diagnosed depression won't solve anything

NativePortlander1970

@UltimateDemiGoddess Thats the problem, self diagnosed depression is worse than not acknowledging it when professionally diagnosed, it's like mental hypochondria

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@NativePortlander1970 yeah I can only hope they get help.

NativePortlander1970

@UltimateDemiGoddess Hooefully, I mean look at me, I'm not exactly Brad Pitt, but I never had any problems getting a gf, but of course I'm also older Gen X, we used to say fuck it and go for it...

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@NativePortlander1970 wonderful. I love that. Happy to hear that there are people like you that give it a go. Great stuff man!

NativePortlander1970

@UltimateDemiGoddess Thank You so very much :)