Have you ever not cared if someone cheated on you in a relationship?

I can’t say I have. But then, I’m in an open marriage and I don’t really care who’s my spouse may be doing now, just as they don’t care I’m in a relationship with someone else. Some might call that cheating, but I say cheating is anything that isn’t agreed upon in a relationship. No one is in disagreement in what’s going on in mine. 🤷‍♀

No, I always cared if someone was sleeping with the woman I was with, and if I did not want to sleep with her the relationship would be over. If she slept with someone else the relationship would be over as well.


But I have a lot of insight into your situation and pray you find peace.

That's how I feel about my bf/roommate (whatever he is). I'm $e×ually frustrated af, but he doesn't want to touch me. So at this point I'm like, fine, go get it elsewhere.

Never been in that position though I cheated on my ex years ago and regret what I did to him.

I'm too old to care about that. Cheating is part of being human. You can't own another human being.

A number of years ago, the wife announced to me that she wanted me to pay for a college friend of hers to come visit us so she could sleep with him. I was fine with it, generally if not perfectly.

Monogamy is not in my DNA so it doesn’t bother me in the least.

nope. I care.

Yes I would care because he’s mine

About all of them, towards the end, lol

You dislike him that much? 😳

Yes