He rejected me tonight. He got up at 1:45 and went downstairs to sleep on his couch and left me...

WandererTony · 56-60, M

Well, i think that if he was cheatimg, he would take extra care to hide it.
He has something on his mind and it clearly isnt you.
Might not be a woman. Maybe work pressure, finances, loans, sheer fatigue, could be anything.
Maybe he is badly humiliated at work and wants me time to recover. To fight his own demons himself.
Keep calm. Dont want to add to his woes, do you? So dont leave him yet.
But do ask him to explain it to you after 1 or 2 days.
You do deserve a straight reply.

Tumbleweed · F

Somethings definitely not right there. I'm sorry 😔

lostlissa · 36-40, F

You should go home. He has some major decisions to make and i would not return until he chose either her or me.

nothereforpeople · F

I'm just sending you a hug. I know how it feels. God will send you someone better. If this guy is acting like this, then he simply doesn't deserve you, and it would be so great if you could just leave and never talk to him again and not feel any pain. But I know feelings are not easy

Dignaga

I only see one post by you. I'm gathering all he said was he had indigestion and needed to get some sleep.

We shouldn't assume cheating, lack of intimacy, red flags, relationship collapsing. We should assume.... he had indigestion and needed to get some sleep.

I'm serious. I see absolutely no evidence otherwise. Get him some tums, or a anti diarreah medicine. Stock the restroom with extra toilet paper.

If I was in a relationship and I was getting sick on a night when I desperately needed sleep, I'd probably not want to sleep next to a wide awake woman. I'd completely understand the allure of the couch, and would be very confused if I was having diarreah or puking and got a knock on the door asking if I was cheating and the relation was over.

Why can't he just be sick? Why?

wellendowed77 · 46-50, M

Aww, thats terrible 😢 u never turn down any type of affection thats my motto

Galaxy44 · 61-69, M

You haven't seen each other in a week and he went to the couch????
Yeah, he's got something he needs to discuss alright. Another woman.
Im sorry sweetheart, hes got another woman on his mind. If he aint dipping his wick at home he's dipping somewhere else.
You need to be getting answers. If not from him, from somewhere else.

Like2play · M

You sound to needy to me. If I was him I woun run not walk away.

Different · 31-35, M

Cheating? Sounds like it.

Dolimyte · 41-45, M

Sounds like he is just used to sleeping alone. Maybe you were tossing and turning, or snoring or something.

James25 · 61-69, M

You should simply ask him for an honest answer as to why he is reacting the way that he is

poshnaturist · 51-55, M

Doesn’t sound like a good situation.
May be best to go home I’m afraid.

in10RjFox · M

So you are in his house and you guys are not married? Or ?

SW-User

Whoa I get not wanting to have sex one night but sleeping in a different bed? That’s too much. You either upset him really bad or that guy doesn’t like you at all. My SO even though sometimes he’s tired and doesn’t wanna have sex he always wants to sleep with me.