He rejected me tonight.

He got up at 1:45 and went downstairs to sleep on his couch and left me in his room. He hasn't came up since. I went to go check on him and he said "I'm trying to sleep". Idk, I'm just bothered I feel lonely and rejected mind you we haven't seen each other in a week and he doesn't even want to be in bed with me tonight. I just want to go home rn because this is hurting my feelings.

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Tumbleweed · F

Somethings definitely not right there. I'm sorry 😔

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Pinkbear · 31-35, F

@Tumbleweed I think he's cheating on me. I haven't seen him in a week and he's sleeping on the couch tonight instead of with me.

Tumbleweed · F

@Pinkbear honestly that would be my first thought too but I'd approach it with caution in case that's not it at all and maybe he'll open up to you so yall can be ok. If he keeps being secretive, I think it's time to bow out gracefully..

Pinkbear · 31-35, F

@Tumbleweed supposedly it was indigestion issues and discomfort due to the meal we had last night but it sounds like BS to me.

WandererTony · 56-60, M

Well, i think that if he was cheatimg, he would take extra care to hide it.
He has something on his mind and it clearly isnt you.
Might not be a woman. Maybe work pressure, finances, loans, sheer fatigue, could be anything.
Maybe he is badly humiliated at work and wants me time to recover. To fight his own demons himself.
Keep calm. Dont want to add to his woes, do you? So dont leave him yet.
But do ask him to explain it to you after 1 or 2 days.
You do deserve a straight reply.

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WandererTony · 56-60, M

@Pinkbear that was good for him. He got time to contemplate on his behavior.
Give him the chance to explain. Please do not close the communication lines. He just might have a good and acceptable reason 🤔

Pinkbear · 31-35, F

@WandererTony well, the reason he supposedly slept down there was because he couldn't sleep and due to indigestion issues from the food from last night which to me is bs.

WandererTony · 56-60, M

@Pinkbear yes you said that

nothereforpeople · F

I'm just sending you a hug. I know how it feels. God will send you someone better. If this guy is acting like this, then he simply doesn't deserve you, and it would be so great if you could just leave and never talk to him again and not feel any pain. But I know feelings are not easy

deadteddy · 26-30, F

Whoa I get not wanting to have sex one night but sleeping in a different bed? That’s too much. You either upset him really bad or that guy doesn’t like you at all. My SO even though sometimes he’s tired and doesn’t wanna have sex he always wants to sleep with me.

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Elisbch · M

@Pinkbear

If he'll participate, a good sit down discussion might be good. 🙏🏻

Stephie · 22-25, F

@deadteddy being together with someone does not automatically mean having sex. You can have quality time and feel needed also when you are cuddling, holding hands or simply having a meaningful conversation with your partner.

deadteddy · 26-30, F

@Stephie I didn’t say it does.

Melissa501 · 36-40, F

You should go home. He has some major decisions to make and i would not return until he chose either her or me.

nothereforpeople · F

@Melissa501 her ? If there's a her in the situation, you should just leave and not come back. He should be sure about you. Otherwise, you'll never be happy

Galaxy44 · 61-69, MNew

You haven't seen each other in a week and he went to the couch????
Yeah, he's got something he needs to discuss alright. Another woman.
Im sorry sweetheart, hes got another woman on his mind. If he aint dipping his wick at home he's dipping somewhere else.
You need to be getting answers. If not from him, from somewhere else.