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He rejected me tonight.

He got up at 1:45 and went downstairs to sleep on his couch and left me in his room. He hasn't came up since. I went to go check on him and he said "I'm trying to sleep". Idk, I'm just bothered I feel lonely and rejected mind you we haven't seen each other in a week and he doesn't even want to be in bed with me tonight. I just want to go home rn because this is hurting my feelings.
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WandererTony · 56-60, M
Well, i think that if he was cheatimg, he would take extra care to hide it.
He has something on his mind and it clearly isnt you.
Might not be a woman. Maybe work pressure, finances, loans, sheer fatigue, could be anything.
Maybe he is badly humiliated at work and wants me time to recover. To fight his own demons himself.
Keep calm. Dont want to add to his woes, do you? So dont leave him yet.
But do ask him to explain it to you after 1 or 2 days.
You do deserve a straight reply.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@Pinkbear that was good for him. He got time to contemplate on his behavior.
Give him the chance to explain. Please do not close the communication lines. He just might have a good and acceptable reason 🤔
Pinkbear · 26-30, F
@WandererTony well, the reason he supposedly slept down there was because he couldn't sleep and due to indigestion issues from the food from last night which to me is bs.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@Pinkbear yes you said that
Tumbleweed · F
Somethings definitely not right there. I'm sorry 😔
Tumbleweed · F
@Pinkbear Hmmm... Nope. I mean, if you guys have been together for a long time, it's definitely time to be straight with each other about this. If you haven't been together long, I think I would let it go because it's already taking a weird turn...
Pinkbear · 26-30, F
@Tumbleweed yeah, it's going to be a year this month. Yeah I do want to talk to him about my concerns.
Tumbleweed · F
@Pinkbear I'd talk to him and if your gut is still telling you somethings wrong, listen to it.
lostlissa · 36-40, F
You should go home. He has some major decisions to make and i would not return until he chose either her or me.
@lostlissa her ? If there's a her in the situation, you should just leave and not come back. He should be sure about you. Otherwise, you'll never be happy
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I'm just sending you a hug. I know how it feels. God will send you someone better. If this guy is acting like this, then he simply doesn't deserve you, and it would be so great if you could just leave and never talk to him again and not feel any pain. But I know feelings are not easy
I only see one post by you. I'm gathering all he said was he had indigestion and needed to get some sleep.

We shouldn't assume cheating, lack of intimacy, red flags, relationship collapsing. We should assume.... he had indigestion and needed to get some sleep.

I'm serious. I see absolutely no evidence otherwise. Get him some tums, or a anti diarreah medicine. Stock the restroom with extra toilet paper.

If I was in a relationship and I was getting sick on a night when I desperately needed sleep, I'd probably not want to sleep next to a wide awake woman. I'd completely understand the allure of the couch, and would be very confused if I was having diarreah or puking and got a knock on the door asking if I was cheating and the relation was over.

Why can't he just be sick? Why?
wellendowed77 · 46-50, M
Aww, thats terrible 😢 u never turn down any type of affection thats my motto
Galaxy44 · 61-69, M
You haven't seen each other in a week and he went to the couch????
Yeah, he's got something he needs to discuss alright. Another woman.
Im sorry sweetheart, hes got another woman on his mind. If he aint dipping his wick at home he's dipping somewhere else.
You need to be getting answers. If not from him, from somewhere else.
Like2play · M
You sound to needy to me. If I was him I woun run not walk away.
Pinkbear · 26-30, F
@Like2play Im glad he's not you.
Tumbleweed · F
@Like2play I don't think she's needy, he's sending her weird vibes, she just wants answers
@Like2play She's not needy
Different · 31-35, M
Cheating? Sounds like it.
Different · 31-35, M
@Pinkbear i mean like be discreet and if he has social media, see of he has anyone new interacting on there.
Different · 31-35, M
@Tumbleweed well i wasnt either but i saw she wrote somrthing about a text he got then he headed downstairs to "sleep" lol
Tumbleweed · F
@Different oh, ok, I totally missed that part...
You know my situation so I don't wanna make her feel the way I do 🥺
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
Sounds like he is just used to sleeping alone. Maybe you were tossing and turning, or snoring or something.
Pinkbear · 26-30, F
@Dolimyte Nah, we sleep together all the time it's something else with him.
James25 · 61-69, M
You should simply ask him for an honest answer as to why he is reacting the way that he is
poshnaturist · 51-55, M
Doesn’t sound like a good situation.
May be best to go home I’m afraid.
in10RjFox · M
So you are in his house and you guys are not married? Or ?
SW-User
Whoa I get not wanting to have sex one night but sleeping in a different bed? That’s too much. You either upset him really bad or that guy doesn’t like you at all. My SO even though sometimes he’s tired and doesn’t wanna have sex he always wants to sleep with me.
Elisbch · M
@Pinkbear

If he'll participate, a good sit down discussion might be good. 🙏🏻
Stephie · F
@SW-User being together with someone does not automatically mean having sex. You can have quality time and feel needed also when you are cuddling, holding hands or simply having a meaningful conversation with your partner.
SW-User
@Stephie I didn’t say it does.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
He’s got some issues he needs to talk about..
Pinkbear · 26-30, F
He's now blaming indigestion, y'all I was like yeah,sure buddy.
Alex51 · 61-69, M
Why did he do so
Pinkbear · 26-30, F
@Alex51 randomly got up from bed and left to lay down on the couch.
SW-User
Did something happen?
TexChik · F
Trust your gut, its time for him to move on.
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SJones48 · 41-45, M
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GeniUs · 56-60, M
Give him a massage send him to sleep then crack that phone of his open if you find anything take pictures. Have an exit plan just in case.
Ramrod · 46-50, M
[media=https://youtu.be/aIspfWvkgzg] :)
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
Why don't u go home
Pinkbear · 26-30, F
@smileylovesgaming just got here
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