He rejected me tonight.

He got up at 1:45 and went downstairs to sleep on his couch and left me in his room. He hasn't came up since. I went to go check on him and he said "I'm trying to sleep". Idk, I'm just bothered I feel lonely and rejected mind you we haven't seen each other in a week and he doesn't even want to be in bed with me tonight. I just want to go home rn because this is hurting my feelings.

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Tumbleweed · F

Somethings definitely not right there. I'm sorry 😔

Pinkbear · 26-30, F

@Tumbleweed yes, idk what's going on so far I just want to go home rn.

Tumbleweed · F

@Pinkbear you need to confront him because he obviously has something on his mind and it needs to be addressed before it gets completely out of hand. That's not fair to you at all.

Pinkbear · 26-30, F

@Tumbleweed I think he's cheating on me. I haven't seen him in a week and he's sleeping on the couch tonight instead of with me.

Tumbleweed · F

@Pinkbear honestly that would be my first thought too but I'd approach it with caution in case that's not it at all and maybe he'll open up to you so yall can be ok. If he keeps being secretive, I think it's time to bow out gracefully..

Pinkbear · 26-30, F

@Tumbleweed supposedly it was indigestion issues and discomfort due to the meal we had last night but it sounds like BS to me.

Tumbleweed · F

@Pinkbear I don't buy that one either...

Pinkbear · 26-30, F

@Tumbleweed yeah, other times he has the same type of food and drinks yet, he's fine all night.

Tumbleweed · F

@Pinkbear yeah, see? Something's not right girl

Pinkbear · 26-30, F

@Tumbleweed something was definitely off he says he couldn't sleep and had indigestion that's why he left bed. And then it was 6:00 a.m. he came back to bed but because he wanted to have secs.

Tumbleweed · F

@Pinkbear Hmmm... Nope. I mean, if you guys have been together for a long time, it's definitely time to be straight with each other about this. If you haven't been together long, I think I would let it go because it's already taking a weird turn...

Pinkbear · 26-30, F

@Tumbleweed yeah, it's going to be a year this month. Yeah I do want to talk to him about my concerns.

Tumbleweed · F

@Pinkbear I'd talk to him and if your gut is still telling you somethings wrong, listen to it.