ProfessorSwatz · 31-35, M
Super red flag in a man.
All those questions he is asking, Don’t NEVER answer questions about why like this when they’re going about like this.
Because the only thing that’s going to happen in the end is he is going to choose least hurtful way that’s familiar to you to end it either before it starts into something real or After he gets what he wants. If he is asking bout physical already and asking these questions, he already has you in a zone labeled “possibly or temporary”
He marked you for the sex zone and hoping he gets what he wants.
All those questions he is asking, Don’t NEVER answer questions about why like this when they’re going about like this.
Because the only thing that’s going to happen in the end is he is going to choose least hurtful way that’s familiar to you to end it either before it starts into something real or After he gets what he wants. If he is asking bout physical already and asking these questions, he already has you in a zone labeled “possibly or temporary”
He marked you for the sex zone and hoping he gets what he wants.
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ProfessorSwatz · 31-35, M
@Fifidog if he had been interested in you genuinely, then after you voiced it the first time he would’ve respected it. If he is constantly asking and settin off your anxiety he has no respect for your boundaries. Which is a red flag.
Physical kissin leads to touching and if he this ansy then touching will come much faster than anticipated.
You only have to voice your boundaries ONE TIME!
Physical kissin leads to touching and if he this ansy then touching will come much faster than anticipated.
You only have to voice your boundaries ONE TIME!
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@ProfessorSwatz he says okay he’ll respect my decisions but then asks again after like 2 weeks which is annoying and I just say what I said the previous time. Him asking me questions on the phone knowing I don’t like it by my tone is what’s setting off my anxiety to talk to him on the phone. Should I tell him next time I’m busy I can’t talk on the phone tonight?
ProfessorSwatz · 31-35, M
@Fifidog with Men, You have to Be Direct!
He isn’t respecting your boundaries so next time you talk to him, let him know, You don’t wanna talk on the phone because he can’t respect it, for now you guys can text, but you will call when you feel comfortable again.
He will either respect it or leave
He isn’t respecting your boundaries so next time you talk to him, let him know, You don’t wanna talk on the phone because he can’t respect it, for now you guys can text, but you will call when you feel comfortable again.
He will either respect it or leave
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Fifidog · 26-30, F
I couldn’t pinpoint it but now that you mention it I could see it being insecure. I told him just go with the flow and let things happen naturally. I’m starting not to want to talk to him on the phone though. What should I say next time he asks if he can call me? I know it’s not just gonna be a conversation without the question at the end. @Catzgano
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Would it be better for you to have these sorts of conversations in person? Or would it be better to dump him because he's getting on your nerves?
Fifidog · 26-30, F
I didn’t tell him I don’t like his questions but he told me he notices I don’t like his questions by my tone @DunningKruger
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@Fifidog That may be a conversation to have if you want to continue on with this guy.