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DO NOT WANT TO TALK TO HIM ON THE PHONE!!!!!!!

I’ve been going on dates with this guy and about once a week he texts me to ask if he can call me so then we talk on the phone and after the end of our conversation before we hang up he always says I have a question for you. And this is starting to give me anxiety to talk to him on the phone. He’ll ask stuff like what are we, is this enough for you, can we start having a physical relationship, why did you and your last boyfriend break up and how long did you guys go out for. He says he knows I hate his questions, but yet he continues to ask them at the end of every phone call anyway! Should I start telling him I can’t talk on the phone when he asks? cause I get anxiety when he says that cause I know I have some question to answer at the end of the conversation.
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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Would it be better for you to have these sorts of conversations in person? Or would it be better to dump him because he's getting on your nerves?
Fifidog · 26-30, F
I don’t know one of the two he’s just really giving me bad anxiety when he wants to talk on the phone. I’m not ready to have those kinds of conversations with him yet @DunningKruger
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@Fifidog And you've tried telling him that but he doesn't listen?
Fifidog · 26-30, F
I didn’t tell him I don’t like his questions but he told me he notices I don’t like his questions by my tone @DunningKruger
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@Fifidog That may be a conversation to have if you want to continue on with this guy.