DO NOT WANT TO TALK TO HIM ON THE PHONE!!!!!!!

I’ve been going on dates with this guy and about once a week he texts me to ask if he can call me so then we talk on the phone and after the end of our conversation before we hang up he always says I have a question for you. And this is starting to give me anxiety to talk to him on the phone. He’ll ask stuff like what are we, is this enough for you, can we start having a physical relationship, why did you and your last boyfriend break up and how long did you guys go out for. He says he knows I hate his questions, but yet he continues to ask them at the end of every phone call anyway! Should I start telling him I can’t talk on the phone when he asks? cause I get anxiety when he says that cause I know I have some question to answer at the end of the conversation.

GohantheThird · M

Sadly, he probably has a lot of anxiety like you do. I would just tell him "I don't think we should talk about think kind of thing over the phone" and hopefully that'll do the trick.

As a general rule, I only text a girlfriend to ask her out on a date.