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She told me I always seem suspicious to her

After a minute of me pushing her to tell me why she feels that way, she said it's because girls hit on me often & I'm kinda oblivious to it 😶

I'm like huh? Why does that make ME suspicious if THEY'RE the ones hitting on me? I'm not acting on it.. I'm not interested.... I can't control how people feel about me 🤷

It's all because this girl tried shooting her shot with me last week. We talked for a day then my sister told me that girl has a crush on me (the girl is my sister's best friend). I stopped responding to her texts after that because the way I see it, yeah I could be friends with people. But [b]not[/b] if they have other intentions.
So after a few days that girl started flipping out on me saying that I must think I'm too good for her & blah blah blah 😶 all I told her was "nah I don't think that but I have a gf & my sister loves you so I'ma leave it at that. Keep your head up though ✌️"

Anyway, now she's kinda mad at me because that's not the only girl who has been trying to talk to me lately so she's like "Girls don't just message you for no reason" & I jokingly said, "well then can't you just take comfort in the fact that I'm desirable & I'm all yours?" & She just turned away from me 🙁 maybe that joke wasn't a good idea.

I'm usually nice but I guess now I should probably start yelling at every girl who texts me? 😂
AlyAngel · F
You are allowed to have friends other than your partner as long as you respect your partner and set boundries with your friends. Also take the crazy horemones into consideration. I went bat shit over green beans. Cried over the facts that the color blue for my nails werent the color i had in mind. Pregnancy horemones makes things nuts. Its not easy so juat try to be understanding. Xx
@AlyAngel yeah she told me she thinks having friends & talking to people is fine 🤷 but when it's a random girl who tries talking to me outta nowhere or it's an ex, then that's different 😅 & I guess I agree. I'm kinda oblivious when someone's flirting with me & she knows that so she wasn't really mad about that part.. it was mostly just that I didn't tell her about it sooner.

The hormones everyone keeps warning me about is scaring me now though 😂
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
You will be able to write your own soap opera called as the hormones rage. LOL
The bad part is it takes about 6 months after the baby's born before the hormones start to settle down and things start to get back to normal.
Prepare yourself for postpartum depression too.
@Dainbramadge 6 months after the baby is a year from now 😮😮 but yeah lots of people keep warning me about post partum. Especially my sister because she's going through it rn
Vix3n · 36-40, F
Lol hormones does crazy things...
When i was pregnant... i didnt think anyone would be interested in me... but there was a friend that flirted with me and I was oblivious too...
Shes just insecure... it happens
@Vix3n she's never been the jealous type so it's kinda funny 😅 I would honestly guess that I'm more of a jealous type than she is
akindheart · 61-69, F
you are getting really mature and wise. and boy what a compliment to tell her that. she is just feeling a little insecure that is all.
@akindheart yeah after a little while I just randomly told her that her & the baby are the most important things in the world to me rn & I'd never ruin that for something so stupid. I hope she believes me because I mean it
akindheart · 61-69, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz just be consistent. be involved. her insecurities will subside.
There are many trials in life but only one of them results in a baby.
@Mamapolo2016 facts... Which one results in the baby again though?
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@ChiefWalksWith40oz Hopefully, not "trial and error!"
@ChiefWalksWith40oz 🎵You better sit down, Son. 🎶
Lilymoon · F
Well she's a little jealous.... you're a good looking guy and it makes her a little insecure when girls hit on you or even text you.
Does she receive texts from guys? If yes then you should remind her that it's a two way street. haha... seriously tho I'm sorry. 🤗
@Lilymoon yeah I can get a little jealous too so I understand it 😅 & yeah she's had a few texts from guys while we've been together. After we talked about it this morning she told me that two of her exes messaged her recently so I was like, "okay so why you getting mad at me for not telling you sooner, when you never told me about your exes texting you until right now?" 😂

That convo ended well at least 😌
Lilymoon · F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz exactly... you said the right thing. 😁
Glad it ended well...
Straylight · 31-35, F
Just flip off anyone who talks to you.
@Straylight 👀👀

🖕
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
She's being unreasonable. You're a good looking dude, that kind of thing is gonna happen.
@DearAmbellina2113 yeah I guess part of why she was mad was because we were fighting at the time some of these girls started talking to me. She thought I was just talking to other girls because me & her weren't getting along 🤷 so I get it. I don't really think she reacted badly tbh. I just didn't know those girls liked me 😅
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz would you be that upset if a dude was flirting with her?
@DearAmbellina2113 I'd be upset a bit if a dude was flirting with her & she was continuing the conversation 😅 actually I'd be upset over a girl doing it too because she's bi 😂

But I explained to her that I honestly didn't know these girls liked me 🤷 & when I found out one of them did I shut it down & told her I have a gf. They didn't blatantly flirt with me so I was truly oblivious & she was like "yeah I believe you didn't know. You're slow at picking those things up" 🤣 because I really am
Juvia · 18-21, F
She probably just feeling like she needs extra security right now.
I wouldn't take it to heart too much.
@Juvia yeah it didn't become like an argument at least 🙏 I just felt kinda shitty because I hate when people think I'd do something so messed up 😭
Juvia · 18-21, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz it has nothing to do with you at least. She just not feeling good lately😊
She might just need some reassurance a lot more than usual for the moment.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
Anyone who knows you have a gf and still reacts as if you think you are "too good" for her has got a problem.
@DrWatson she didn't know I had a gf at that time 😂 she ran back to my sister like "why didn't you tell me he had a gf!?" & My sister said, "I told you it wasn't gonna turn out like you wanted it to 🤷" 🤣🤣
Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25
Your girl is buggin out

Don't let her manipulate you into thinking you're the problem here or feeling bad about the choices of other girls. You're a good man for dodging other girls' attention and she should appreciate your loyalty but for some reason has chosen to deem you suspicious

Keep being nice and don't let her ruin the good manners you got

Sometimes girls get insecure but it's inappropriate and straight up toxic to blame [b]you[/b] for other girls hitting on you
She needs to work on her insecurity issues. It’s definitely not your problem
@BeefySenpie I guess she was mostly mad because I didn't tell her until now 😅 I honestly didn't think it was important though & we haven't talked much lately so 🤷
turnedtostone · 56-60, F
She's very insecure
That is the problem
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Maybe you guys should talk about your boundaries. Even if it is your sisters friend sometimes the fact that you are texting another woman is too much 🤷‍♂️
@SkeetSkeet yeah she said talking to people is fine. Especially if they're someone who I was already friends with. But entertaining "new" girls who pop up out the blue is a [b]no[/b] I suppose 😅 she said she knows how girls are & they don't just text you out the blue for no reason 🤷 so I'm like "well I never knew that" 🤣

 
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