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She told me I always seem suspicious to her

After a minute of me pushing her to tell me why she feels that way, she said it's because girls hit on me often & I'm kinda oblivious to it 馃樁

I'm like huh? Why does that make ME suspicious if THEY'RE the ones hitting on me? I'm not acting on it.. I'm not interested.... I can't control how people feel about me 馃し

It's all because this girl tried shooting her shot with me last week. We talked for a day then my sister told me that girl has a crush on me (the girl is my sister's best friend). I stopped responding to her texts after that because the way I see it, yeah I could be friends with people. But [b]not[/b] if they have other intentions.
So after a few days that girl started flipping out on me saying that I must think I'm too good for her & blah blah blah 馃樁 all I told her was "nah I don't think that but I have a gf & my sister loves you so I'ma leave it at that. Keep your head up though 鉁岋笍"

Anyway, now she's kinda mad at me because that's not the only girl who has been trying to talk to me lately so she's like "Girls don't just message you for no reason" & I jokingly said, "well then can't you just take comfort in the fact that I'm desirable & I'm all yours?" & She just turned away from me 馃檨 maybe that joke wasn't a good idea.

I'm usually nice but I guess now I should probably start yelling at every girl who texts me? 馃槀
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DearAmbellina211341-45, F
She's being unreasonable. You're a good looking dude, that kind of thing is gonna happen.
ChiefWalksWith40oz26-30
@DearAmbellina2113 yeah I guess part of why she was mad was because we were fighting at the time some of these girls started talking to me. She thought I was just talking to other girls because me & her weren't getting along 馃し so I get it. I don't really think she reacted badly tbh. I just didn't know those girls liked me 馃槄
DearAmbellina211341-45, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz would you be that upset if a dude was flirting with her?
ChiefWalksWith40oz26-30
@DearAmbellina2113 I'd be upset a bit if a dude was flirting with her & she was continuing the conversation 馃槄 actually I'd be upset over a girl doing it too because she's bi 馃槀

But I explained to her that I honestly didn't know these girls liked me 馃し & when I found out one of them did I shut it down & told her I have a gf. They didn't blatantly flirt with me so I was truly oblivious & she was like "yeah I believe you didn't know. You're slow at picking those things up" 馃ぃ because I really am