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Why is my husband still friends with a woman who is in love with him?

This woman is in love with him but he still remains friends with her and goes out with her. Why would a man do this? He denies being in love with her and told me he just sees her as a friend. Does he secretly have feelings for her too? I’m not talking about an affair, I just mean does he care about her more than he is telling me, like does he emotionally care for her if he is doing this? I’m not talking about affair, just the emotional side of things?
If she's not physically attractive to him, then a friendship on his side is possible.
If she's in love with him she might be the type who only falls for men who are not available.There are all kinds of personalities in the world.

Maybe your husband enjoys the company of someone who's in love with him.
If that's the case, it might be time to put more love, nurture, romance and excitement into your relationship. Show him you enjoy his company -
and keep it up.
It's far too easy for spouses to take each other for granted.
Talking about how you feel about it with him might be the best thing to do. He’s your husband should be easy sharing with him about how you feel about it. He would probably understand it upsets you. Maybe you just need some time together again you should surprise him some how do something fun together. There will always be a stronger bond between you and him because u love each other and he’s your husband. Don’t loose that trust element but to do so you must share more openly. Admittedly a hard topic I’m sure but your feelings about it should be most important above all. Transparency is key.
PatKirby · M
Start going out with a man who is in love with you, but you deny being in love with. See what your husband says afterward. You'll have your answer right there.
Steve42 · 56-60, M
That does not pass the sniff test. Out of respect for you and your marriage he should be leaving that other woman alone.
PatKirby · M

Yep, very likely the case. Wouldn't be surprised if he was getting free nookie on the side.
Teirdalin · 31-35
He's probably having an affair with her.
losthorizons · 51-55, M
He is banging her
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
If he sees her as a friend, then he probably cares about her in the same way you would care for one of your friends. Now if he's out with her more than he's with you then that might be worth worrying about.
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
He probably does. It’s probably platonic. It probably doesn’t matter.

But if it matters to you you can tell him to end it with her or end it with him…

If it matters that much… and it probably doesn’t.

not sure ,maybe he’s just trying to be a good friend and keep up a good impression as a responsible man ?It might boost his ego?
or he’s taking a chance to see how far the fondness grows in her ?
Many men are unpredictable
Magnolia21 · 22-25, F
Feel free to talk with your husband. Stay calm, rational, let him know that it makes you uncomfortable. If you get too emotional, it will hurt your case.
Outdoorfreedom · 56-60, M
Ask if you can go along too. Maybe it'll stop or all three will enjoy each other.
Teirdalin · 31-35
Oh god I unblocked a bot while making room to block more bots.
Morrigan · F
Have you told him not to go out with her?
SlaveEt · 36-40, F
Does it matter?

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