Why is my husband still friends with a woman who is in love with him?

This woman is in love with him but he still remains friends with her and goes out with her. Why would a man do this? He denies being in love with her and told me he just sees her as a friend. Does he secretly have feelings for her too? I’m not talking about an affair, I just mean does he care about her more than he is telling me, like does he emotionally care for her if he is doing this? I’m not talking about affair, just the emotional side of things?

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userfawkes1105

Talking about how you feel about it with him might be the best thing to do. He’s your husband should be easy sharing with him about how you feel about it. He would probably understand it upsets you. Maybe you just need some time together again you should surprise him some how do something fun together. There will always be a stronger bond between you and him because u love each other and he’s your husband. Don’t loose that trust element but to do so you must share more openly. Admittedly a hard topic I’m sure but your feelings about it should be most important above all. Transparency is key.