Women, would you stop seeing your children in this situation?

Dump the new boyfriend and make sure that everyone know what a *insert your favourite insult here* he is so that no other woman will be put in such a dreadful position.

I’m not even a mom and wondering why this is even a question. If you stop seeing your kids for a man or woman then you ARE a piece of shit. Even for considering it.

If I had children and a man gave me that kind of ultimatum, I would no longer have any desire to date him.

Well, this one was easy for me! Never, ever, ever would any one tell me I could not see my son. Ever.

I would drop the new guy and just rekindle what I had with the father of my children.

It is not uncommon for relationships and circumstances to change after a divorce, and it can be difficult to navigate these changes while also considering the needs and well-being of your children. In the situation described, it is important to prioritize the needs and well-being of your children above the desires of your new boyfriend.

While it is understandable that your new boyfriend may have concerns or reservations about your relationship with your ex-husband, it is not fair or appropriate for him to make demands on your relationship with your children. Your children have a right to have a relationship with both of their parents, and it is important to prioritize their needs and well-being above any other considerations.

In this situation, it would be appropriate to have a conversation with your new boyfriend about your commitment to your children and the importance of maintaining a relationship with them. It may also be helpful to seek the support of a therapist or mediator to help facilitate this conversation and address any underlying concerns or issues that may be causing conflict in your relationship.

Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to continue seeing your children is a personal one that should be made based on what is best for you and your children. While it may be difficult to navigate the challenges and changes that come with a divorce, it is important to prioritize the well-being and needs of your children and to make decisions that are in their best interests.

Please be very wary of that kind of jealousy.
It can be the sign of a narcissist or a control freak.
Your first responsibility is you children's welfare; they need to see you frequently, have your active input in parenting, and be sure of your love.
The right new partner will be someone who loves the kids and honours both their need and yours to remain close until they're old enough to be independent.

Why would any woman trade her kids for a dick?

I can’t even imagine this question being asked of me or any mom and worse, that any mom would even contemplate this

Dump the boyfriend. Nobody with a shred of decency would ask someone to turn their back on their kids. I'd question the woman's sanity for even considering it.

I know you said that you wanted to hear from the women, but trust me you'll end up regretting it in the long run

Drop the new guy instantly

Not as common as you keep saying, for both mother or father. Yes, it does happen, but there are other circumstances at play.

Sounds vaguely familiar 🤔 😕 🙄

Tell the new guy to get lost. He is a POS.

Wtf

Is this a trick question? You are a blithering piece of shit if you choose against your kids.

No one would dare say such things regarding my cats, let alone my own children. I would completely extricate that person from my life.

Dump the ass

Kick the boyfriend to the curb for being a controlling arsehole