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Women, would you stop seeing your children in this situation?

Let's say you were married with two kids. You and your husband got a divorce and you're dating a new man. He doesn't like when you see or talk your ex husband and you noticed that your kids are seeing you less and less time with you.


Your new boyfriend says if you want to continue dating him then you need to stop seeing your ex husband and your two children. Your ex husband says it's your choice but he thinks you'd be a piece of shit for deciding to stop seeing your own children just to keep your new man happy. - what would you do in this situation?
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EditaPaperCom · 41-45, M
It is not uncommon for relationships and circumstances to change after a divorce, and it can be difficult to navigate these changes while also considering the needs and well-being of your children. In the situation described, it is important to prioritize the needs and well-being of your children above the desires of your new boyfriend.

While it is understandable that your new boyfriend may have concerns or reservations about your relationship with your ex-husband, it is not fair or appropriate for him to make demands on your relationship with your children. Your children have a right to have a relationship with both of their parents, and it is important to prioritize their needs and well-being above any other considerations.

In this situation, it would be appropriate to have a conversation with your new boyfriend about your commitment to your children and the importance of maintaining a relationship with them. It may also be helpful to seek the support of a therapist or mediator to help facilitate this conversation and address any underlying concerns or issues that may be causing conflict in your relationship.

Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to continue seeing your children is a personal one that should be made based on what is best for you and your children. While it may be difficult to navigate the challenges and changes that come with a divorce, it is important to prioritize the well-being and needs of your children and to make decisions that are in their best interests.