Women, would you stop seeing your children in this situation?

Let's say you were married with two kids. You and your husband got a divorce and you're dating a new man. He doesn't like when you see or talk your ex husband and you noticed that your kids are seeing you less and less time with you.

Your new boyfriend says if you want to continue dating him then you need to stop seeing your ex husband and your two children. Your ex husband says it's your choice but he thinks you'd be a piece of shit for deciding to stop seeing your own children just to keep your new man happy. - what would you do in this situation?

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hartfire

Please be very wary of that kind of jealousy.
It can be the sign of a narcissist or a control freak.
Your first responsibility is you children's welfare; they need to see you frequently, have your active input in parenting, and be sure of your love.
The right new partner will be someone who loves the kids and honours both their need and yours to remain close until they're old enough to be independent.