Women, would you stop seeing your children in this situation?

Let's say you were married with two kids. You and your husband got a divorce and you're dating a new man. He doesn't like when you see or talk your ex husband and you noticed that your kids are seeing you less and less time with you.

Your new boyfriend says if you want to continue dating him then you need to stop seeing your ex husband and your two children. Your ex husband says it's your choice but he thinks you'd be a piece of shit for deciding to stop seeing your own children just to keep your new man happy. - what would you do in this situation?

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Jammer6475 · 46-50, M

I know you said that you wanted to hear from the women, but trust me you'll end up regretting it in the long run

Woofwoof15 · 26-30, F

@Jammer6475 I know but this is so common.

Jammer6475 · 46-50, M

@Woofwoof15 you'll regret not having that time with them, especially if they are young

Woofwoof15 · 26-30, F

@Jammer6475 I don't have kids though

Jammer6475 · 46-50, M

@Woofwoof15 Oh OK, figured you was asking for yourself

Woofwoof15 · 26-30, F

@Jammer6475 you mean you thought I was considering disowning my kids for a man?

Jammer6475 · 46-50, M

@Woofwoof15 like you said it's possible

SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M

@Woofwoof15 so, because it's common you'd stop seeing your babies?!

Woofwoof15 · 26-30, F

@SilkandLace2 https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2022/06/16/mom-ditches-kids-on-south-carolina-island-flees-with-boyfriend/amp/

https://953thebear.com/alabama-mother-abandons-child-to-live-with-new-boyfriend/

This isn't me but I noticed that situations like these are common

SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M

@Woofwoof15 and what do YOU think??

Woofwoof15 · 26-30, F

@SilkandLace2 I know this is wrong but I wondered how many women thought otherwise

SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M

@Woofwoof15 you know what, I'm gonna cut this off right here, i didn't carry my children, and men are sometimes ground into the dirt for being "absentee fathers", how could you even entertain this notion?! 🤬

SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M

@Woofwoof15 so, if you "know it's wrong", and I'm not really even talking right or wrong,, how could you even fit a second entertain this, I'm NOT woman, nor carried them, do you just not have the "connection" that in SO many instances overrides a father's love for them that gets denied a lot just because we haven't carried them?? I'm done, you should know, bye