Should I be ashamed that my new boyfriend is 13 years younger than me? He's 20 and I'm 33 he...

RileyLandS · 41-45, M

One of your first interactions was him lying to you. Get rid of him asap. Imagine how much else he lies about

So you're still dating, despite the fact that he showed you disrespect straight out of the gate???

I hope you come to see that you're worthy of more than a liar who concealed information so that you were unable to make an informed decision.

chilloutab2 · 41-45, M

There's nothing to be ashamed at the age gap... he is an adult and so are you, and you are both attracted to each other. A mere number - that too an insignificant one - should not stop you.

His lying about his age could be a cause for concern... but would you have given him a chance if he had revealed his actual age? Maybe he was too attracted to you to risk that. His lying may be speaking for his character, as many comments have pointed out... but your stance about his age also points to why he may have been compelled to do so in the first place.

Djac17 · 22-25, M

As long as he said that as a joke then you're fine.
And the fact he just scored a cougar (Milf if you're a mom), makes me wanna high five the dude 😂😂😂😂 My dawg!! Lucky son of a bxtch 😂 Tip my hat to a fellow cougar hunter