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Should I be ashamed that my new boyfriend is 13 years younger than me? He's 20 and I'm 33 he lied about his age when we first met and said he was 35😬

He does look a bit older than his age😯
RileyLandS · 41-45, M
One of your first interactions was him lying to you. Get rid of him asap. Imagine how much else he lies about
So you're still dating, despite the fact that he showed you disrespect straight out of the gate???

I hope you come to see that you're worthy of more than a liar who concealed information so that you were unable to make an informed decision.
chilloutab2 · 41-45, M
There's nothing to be ashamed at the age gap... he is an adult and so are you, and you are both attracted to each other. A mere number - that too an insignificant one - should not stop you.

His lying about his age could be a cause for concern... but would you have given him a chance if he had revealed his actual age? Maybe he was too attracted to you to risk that. His lying may be speaking for his character, as many comments have pointed out... but your stance about his age also points to why he may have been compelled to do so in the first place.
Djac17 · 22-25, M
As long as he said that as a joke then you're fine.
And the fact he just scored a cougar (Milf if you're a mom), makes me wanna high five the dude 😂😂😂😂 My dawg!! Lucky son of a bxtch 😂 Tip my hat to a fellow cougar hunter
throughTheMotions · 51-55, M
Not if it works, but I would be concerned that he lied to get you to date him.
PoeticPlay · 51-55, M
If you are ashamed of it?
Then you shouldn't be doing it.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
should NOT be ashamed that he lied to you

but you SHOULD wonder what else he's lied about in order to get into your....heart.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
No. It doesn't matter what your relative ages are as long as you like each other.
Ariasp00 · 56-60, M
Enjoy the relationship…. There are some men we REALLY like older woman …..
WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T
Do you love him? If yes then fuck what others say or think
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
Not a big age difference, however now you know he’s a habitual liar.
Whodunnit · M
As long as you are both happy and everything is working out, then no.
SW-User
Why be with someone who lies?
@SW-User I agree... to me, he's already shown that he's not trustworthy straight out of the gate.
Briansbrain · 56-60, M
Are you happy 🤷‍♂️
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
@Briansbrain eh, he seems like a liar.....
Briansbrain · 56-60, M
@Witchthatwantsfun not happy then 🤷‍♂️, he's got to go
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
Enjoy your fun while you can
Pretzel · 61-69, M
you should strut and be proud!
TeirdalinFirefall · 31-35, M
Lying about the age is a huge red flag.

 
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