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How do I ask a guy out

There’s a guy who asked me out about a year ago but I was going through a tough time and was not ready for a new relationship. At this point in my life I’m doing much better and I’d like to go on a date with him. Not sure if he’s still interested or what the situation is but how do I go about asking him?
Oneofthestormboys · 100+, M
Say to him: “Do you remember that you asked me out about a year ago?”
If he says “no”, then just shrug and move on. If he says “yes” then ask him if the offer is still open. If it were me, then I’d be dead chuffed that you were asking me about it a year after the event.
Either way, you’ll get an answer. Don’t be scared, just go for it.
@Oneofthestormboys It is all about timing. The right timing.
SW-User
Just ask him if he has any plans for the weekend? That would be a nice ice breaker
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@SW-User what happens if he says okay but never calls? Should I reach out to him or is the man supposed to be the hunter?
SW-User
@Fifidog Technically, he should be the one asking. Yet, it also sounds like you truly care about him. Exchange phone numbers and go from there. Maybe he lost your number and that is why he doesn't call
drymer · 56-60, M
Just be friendly, show interest in knowing how he's been and things will happen organically...
Fifidog · 26-30, F
@drymer what would be a good ice breaker to get the conversation started? Do you think he’s mad at me that I wasn’t able to go on a date last year?
Mysterion619 · 26-30, M
Just say you've noticed him since however long you've known him, say you'd like to get to o know him better and ask him if he wants to go for a coffee
Anielka · F
Just go up to him and start a conversation then ask him if the offer for a date is still good, if he was really interested in you he'll say yes.
Heavenlywarrior · 36-40, M
I’m sure he still want to date … aka … smash. But u waited kinda long might have other things more important after a year
be honest with him. Tell him what you've been doing, and how you're doing so much better now. If he's still interested, he'll ask you.
JPWhoo · 36-40, M
Just ask him next time you see him! Or if you can’t do it then then just message him on social media I guess.
Asks: wanna get a drink sometime.

Should work, unless he is a catcher for the other team.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
"Whatcha doin Friday night? Wanna hangout?" Alternatively: "Do you wat to get lucky?"
DaddyP · 61-69, M
Don’t ask. Just say “yes, I will go out with you”. Let him figure it out.
Just ask him. He can either say yes or no. You have nothing to lose.
Dacrowman · 70-79, M
Hey wanna go for a drink after work tonight
ATripToNowhere · 46-50, M
Come up to him and ask him out. It's as simple as that.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Hey, do you want to grab a coffee?
Tres13 · 51-55, M
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MonaReeves86 · 36-40, F
did you like him or are you asking him out one year later what makes you think he waited for you?

 
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