Sad fat guy wants to know why supermodels won’t date him. I’ve known a guy for 6 years called...

Isthisit · F

He needs to learn that beggars cant be choosers

Morvoren · F

This post was downvoted by the lovely @HypnoChode for reasons known only to him.

Maybe Adam has an account here I didn’t know about…

BlueVeins · 22-25

Hot take -- there's nothing wrong with him but also he shouldn't be surprised. It's not his fault that his sex drive is kinda outta wack and most people don't get his motor running. It was right on your end to point out that his standards are way higher than he is, but telling him to lower them is equivalent to telling him to date people he's not attractive to, which is disrespectful to those people he'd be dating.

edit: actually, the personality stuff does kinda imply that he's got brain worms too, idk it's definitely reasonable to just tell him to lower his standards on that. Nobody's happy with their partner ALL the time.

CestManan · 46-50, F

I thought you were describing this one guy on here until you got to the part about high standards because the one i know would take anyone.

But for your friend -

Just handle it the same way people would if it were some middle age overweight unattractive woman with unrealistic standards - Just say, "Oh honey you deserve only the best! Those men should be begging for your love!"

Isn't that what they tell "bottom of the barrel" women when they have high standards?

Ozymandiaz

There are plenty of Adams in this world. I have a friend who has the same unrealistic expectations

Thevy29 · 41-45, M

Why is he your concern?

Since he loves himself so much he can go F#$% himself too.

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

Sorry but the looks are just "the cherry on top of the cake". His expectations are already repulsive enough, if I should be honest. Who wants to be with someone who expects them to be perfect according to their criteria 24/7? He sounds like one of those individuals who set an expiration date on their partners and dump them when they reach certain age.

TallMtnMedic · M

Might be time to leave that friendship. If you do remain friends, and remind himvyou dont want to hear aboit his (lack of) lovelife or any women he brings up.

Eternity · 26-30, M

He isn't a woman; he cannot reasonably expect to have sexual success with members of the opposite sex that are significantly more physically attractive than he is.

If he wants those models he is going to have to start making some serious, serious, money.

SW-User

Sounds to me like there is no hope there. He needs to be realistic and straighten himself out. If he wont listen to your advice, then it may be time to move on. It is a sad situation.

Whodunnit · M

Isn't it supposed to be a good thing to reach for the stars? Or is that just for slim, conventially attractive people? 🤔

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

Ehhhh....
While I see the problem with Adam I just wanted to weigh in that it cuts in both directions. The whole "incel" Phenomenon remarkably started with women.

We have to call them Femcels now just to avoid confusion because the men did such a great job of appropriating the term and making everyone cringe that in order to actually talk to people we have to change the terminology and point out the femcels started it.

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PhoenixPhail · M

I think Adam is living in a dream world. He's looking for something totally conditional, which has nothing to do with being genuine or recognizing anything genuine in someone else. You could let him in on that, but I don't think it's going to make any difference. Even if he understands the concept, he's going to have to learn through experience.

calicuz · 56-60, M

I'm sorry to say leave him to it. If a man at his age is unwilling to take the advice of a woman, about women, then I'm afraid there may be no hope.

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP

adam watches too much hollywood movies.

natalie portman isnt gunna knock on his door lost.
where a feel good love story ensues.

he gotta go outside.... arrrrg scary

deadgerbil · 26-30

Tell him to become a gigachad lol people like him after delusional

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

Adam ....... Hummmm.........
Yeah .....

hunkalove · 61-69, M

He must be poor.

ArtieKat · M

No hope!

Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M

He's homosexual. Supermodels aren't even sexually arousing. They look like hell and all those clothes are annoying.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

It's pretty simple. By having unreasonable standards, his love life resembling that of a monk becomes everyone else's fault.

Justenjoyit · 61-69, M

Flip side of that no stress and has money in his pocket lol

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

I don’t know that there is any hope

empanadas · 31-35, M

Tell him to hire a hooker

BigGuy2 · 26-30, M

Surely, his name's Kevin, not Adam 🤭🤭🤭

... he may be trying too hard, for the reasons you gave, he'll find that as soon as he relaxes or chills out and 'gives up' it will 'happen' ... it did for me

BUT

...he's living in a World of his own if he thinks a model will run off into the sunset with him, hopefully i'm wrong

candycane · 31-35, F

He wants you.