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Sad fat guy wants to know why supermodels won’t date him.

I’ve known a guy for 6 years called Adam who has ridiculous high standards in who he will or won’t date. The women he is attracted to must have the steady balance of being immaculate 24/7, be able to discuss any subject for hours and place him at the centre of their world.

But there’s a few problems for Adam. If we’re being brutally honest he is an over weight man in his late thirties, with badly shaped asymmetrical goatee who’s idea of a good time is a walk to the shop, he wears T-shirts with cheaply printed Christian slogans on and makes no effort endear himself to anyone and that it should come to him.

He’s a virgin and this saddens him, but he would rather try pry details out of me about my sex life then do anything practical about his own.

He’s currently not speaking to me as I tried tough love, which got him as far as setting up a dating profile, but he made no effort to context anyone because they were “all too ugly” for him.

Shall I leave him to it or is there any hope?
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Punches · 46-50, F
I thought you were describing this one guy on here until you got to the part about high standards because the one i know would take anyone.

But for your friend -

Just handle it the same way people would if it were some middle age overweight unattractive woman with unrealistic standards - Just say, "Oh honey you deserve only the best! Those men should be begging for your love!"

Isn't that what they tell "bottom of the barrel" women when they have high standards?