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Since my boyfriend is calling other women beautiful in front of me I should dump him, right?

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Vivaci

If he’s calling them beautiful, so what? 🤔

How does that make you less attractive to him?

Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M

I always cut ties with people who aren’t respectful. It depends on his intentions

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

No, not just for that. Acknowledging someone else's beauty in no way detracts from his appreciation for your beauty. It isn't a zero-sum game.

That said, he better be doing the dishes and giving you footrubs on a regular basis.

Coppercoil · M

No.. go poly.

smiler2012 · 56-60

it is inappropriate of your boyfriend but maybe just human nature . if basically you can not trust him far as other woman go and not a one man woman it maybe time to say bye bye [witchthatwantsfun]

Pretzel · 61-69, M

not necessarly
if he recognizez beauty and counts you among them - SCORE

if he says they are prettier than you - red flag

if he says he wants to do them instead of you - dump him

SW-User

I know I would it shows the lack of respect he has for you any man who respects and loves his gf would think twice before doing anything that would hurt her in anyway.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

Have you told him it bothers you? If you do and he makes you feel guilty or stupid... Dump him

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Witchthatwantsfun Forgets? Forgets that it hurts you?

Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F

@Justmeraeagain Yes later I'm just going to message him it's over🥲🥲🥹🥹

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Witchthatwantsfun Sorry 😔 Any break up is hard, but you deserve better than that.

Isthisit · F

Thats so disrespectful. How would he feel if you were doing that to other men? How long have you guys been going out?

Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F

@Isthisit 7 years🙁

WhateverWorks · 36-40

I think if you’ve already talk to him about how it makes you uncomfortable and he still does it then I’d dump them

DylanGuy · 22-25, M

Find out if he's flirting or just being polite with compliments.
There is a difference between the two and only one should concern you.

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

Have you talked to him about this?

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Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

So a couple things could be going on here. Neither of which is good.

If someone does something you don’t like repeatedly it’s likely because they do not understand why it bothers you. They simply cannot empathize how their actions upset you. This is actually a fundamental incompatibility of two people and must be addressed immediately. You have to explain to him that if he cannot understand why what he is doing bothers you then the relationship cannot continue.give some time and then see if the behaviour improves. If not end it.

Another possibility is that he isn’t impressed with how you look and does it to either make you try harder or he is actively searching or someone new.

In that case you need to up your game and listen more to what he wants or if nothing is lacking then you need to decide if it’s time to leave.

Your feeling matter. It is a problem. You must address it. @Witchthatwantsfun

Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F

I don't think he likes my looks any more or he never did to begin with. I think he was just desperate and swept me off my feet because I was the first attainable woman for him at the time☹️@Muthafukajones

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@Witchthatwantsfun I’m sorry to hear that. You really should talk to him about it and don’t just talk but listen and judge his reactions to your questions. If he really isn’t that into you you need to move on.