Since my boyfriend is calling other women beautiful in front of me I should dump him, right?
31-35, F
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Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
@Muthafukajones yes he just forgets and does it again☹️
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
So a couple things could be going on here. Neither of which is good.
If someone does something you don’t like repeatedly it’s likely because they do not understand why it bothers you. They simply cannot empathize how their actions upset you. This is actually a fundamental incompatibility of two people and must be addressed immediately. You have to explain to him that if he cannot understand why what he is doing bothers you then the relationship cannot continue.give some time and then see if the behaviour improves. If not end it.
Another possibility is that he isn’t impressed with how you look and does it to either make you try harder or he is actively searching or someone new.
In that case you need to up your game and listen more to what he wants or if nothing is lacking then you need to decide if it’s time to leave.
Your feeling matter. It is a problem. You must address it. @Witchthatwantsfun
If someone does something you don’t like repeatedly it’s likely because they do not understand why it bothers you. They simply cannot empathize how their actions upset you. This is actually a fundamental incompatibility of two people and must be addressed immediately. You have to explain to him that if he cannot understand why what he is doing bothers you then the relationship cannot continue.give some time and then see if the behaviour improves. If not end it.
Another possibility is that he isn’t impressed with how you look and does it to either make you try harder or he is actively searching or someone new.
In that case you need to up your game and listen more to what he wants or if nothing is lacking then you need to decide if it’s time to leave.
Your feeling matter. It is a problem. You must address it. @Witchthatwantsfun
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
I don't think he likes my looks any more or he never did to begin with. I think he was just desperate and swept me off my feet because I was the first attainable woman for him at the time☹️@Muthafukajones
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
@Witchthatwantsfun I’m sorry to hear that. You really should talk to him about it and don’t just talk but listen and judge his reactions to your questions. If he really isn’t that into you you need to move on.