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Im also sick and tired already of my new coworkers shoving their relationships in front of my face. I get it you found someone who loves you just stop

My boyfriend and I are talking about marriage and having a kid and we are gonna buy a house blah blah blah.

My boyfriend took me out to dinner lastnight and we tried a new beer.

My this my that I'm gonna scream. Stop waving something around in my face that i will never have or experience. It's cruel at this point
Carissimi · 61-69, F
When you find a new love, you want to share it. It’s normal, so I doubt they are intentionally wanting to hurt you, but from your perspective it is hurting you. I get it. I would feel hurt too, if I were around others doing that, but it wouldn’t be them, it would be me. It’s us, not them because we are alone and lacking what we want and need so much.
FutureIdol · 26-30, M
[@40142,Carissimi] I'm also new so they don't know that about me yet and I don't want to be a jerk and complain about it. I'm glad they are happy but it hurts.
Carissimi · 61-69, F
I know. ☹️ I’m always happy for those who find love, but like you, it’s bitter-sweet because it hits us even more that we don’t have it. It’s painful, and why I only go to parks and lakes during the week, when it’s quieter. Being around couples and families at the weekend just makes me feel more lonely. {{hugs}}[@590561,FutureIdol]
Gaiia · F
The ones that boast usually arent really happy.
Gaiia · F
[@590561,FutureIdol] yeah not fun if you were feeling bad to deal with that.
FutureIdol · 26-30, M
[@536386,Gaiia] Yeah I've been depressed a lot lately.
Gaiia · F
[@590561,FutureIdol] same,...
😐😐😐
smiler2012 · 56-60, M
{@futureidol ] tell me why will you never get this chance i do not quiet understand . if it irritates you so for whatever reason just walkawy from the conversation
tk9999 · 41-45, M
Are they saying it to you, or are you just in listening range while they say it to someone else?
FutureIdol · 26-30, M
[@1135204,tk9999] I can hear them talking loudly among themselves
tk9999 · 41-45, M
[@590561,FutureIdol] Sorry you are feeling bad but they are allowed to talk to themselves about things.
Wear headphones if it bothers you.
Or talk to someone about whatever is making you upset at your core.
Blaming them for throwing it in your face when they’re not even talking to you just because you don’t like the topic of their conversation is kinda toxic. You’ll poison your mind even further than it already is if you continue with that line of thought.
Lostpoet · 31-35, M
Youll have a bf when you are ready. 🫀🫂
FutureIdol · 26-30, M
[@780464,Lostpoet] Doubt it. I'm not getting any younger
Lostpoet · 31-35, M
[@590561,FutureIdol] Gf or bf when come one you are ready.

 
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