Im also sick and tired already of my new coworkers shoving their relationships in front of my face. I get it you found someone who loves you just stop

My boyfriend and I are talking about marriage and having a kid and we are gonna buy a house blah blah blah.

My boyfriend took me out to dinner lastnight and we tried a new beer.

My this my that I'm gonna scream. Stop waving something around in my face that i will never have or experience. It's cruel at this point

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Carissimi · 70-79, F

When you find a new love, you want to share it. It’s normal, so I doubt they are intentionally wanting to hurt you, but from your perspective it is hurting you. I get it. I would feel hurt too, if I were around others doing that, but it wouldn’t be them, it would be me. It’s us, not them because we are alone and lacking what we want and need so much.

FutureIdol · 31-35, M

@Carissimi I'm also new so they don't know that about me yet and I don't want to be a jerk and complain about it. I'm glad they are happy but it hurts.

Carissimi · 70-79, F

I know. ☹️ I’m always happy for those who find love, but like you, it’s bitter-sweet because it hits us even more that we don’t have it. It’s painful, and why I only go to parks and lakes during the week, when it’s quieter. Being around couples and families at the weekend just makes me feel more lonely. {{hugs}}@FutureIdol