Just a thought

As i get older and i have some of the experiences ive never had growing up the stuff everyone should have i really feel im a fighter not a lover. No one ever accepts this when i say it but for me its my truth. What is so wrong with that?

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OogieBoogie · F

I suppose it's where you put your priorities.

Some people are very good at self preservation.

Me ?
Im a peace keeper.
It tore me to shreds to become a fighter.

I feel its ruined my soul 🫤

Not saying 'fighters' are bad, but not everyone is designed to be one.

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Rokan · 36-40, M

@OogieBoogie well yeah usually i do but i felt what helped me with this was when i was 7 i was kicked out of my house by my abusive alcoholic mother. I had ti adapt had to learn to survive. And then when i was 17 i started going to therapy and its like i just learned so much about people and why things are the way that they are its an easy subject for me.

OogieBoogie · F

@Rokan that's intersting🤔

Coz therapy isnt to learn about others ....its to learn about urself.

I wonder why your learning bent that way🤷‍♀

Rokan · 36-40, M

@OogieBoogie no there are all kinds of therapy right now i do Cognitive Processing Therapy specifically, but im a person thats been disturbed by people my environment my world and ive tried to understand it and in therapy we have explored it with such talks centered around emotional intelligence, and other theories.

Wiseacre · F

What’s wrong with being a fighter? Nothing! But it doesn’t sound much fun having to fight all the time…for what?

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Wiseacre · F

@Rokan wow, ur doing that? It’s brutal!

Rokan · 36-40, M

@Wiseacre ive done it my whole life its a fun sport ive also done rodeo and football rwally all the sports

Wiseacre · F

@Rokan I see..I find it hard to watch. I like boxing.

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