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Genuine question

I saw a white girl with dreadlocks yesterday. When my friend noticed her, she asked me if I thought that was cultural appropriation or disrespectful. Neither of us thought it was.
But it got me curious about what others think.
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ninalanyon · 61-69, T
This whole cultural appropriation thing gets out of hand in all directions sometimes. Taken the way some people seem to want to it would mean that no style could ever be transmitted from one group of people to another.

As long as the person isn't claiming to be what they are not who cares how they style their hair?
kutee · T
@ninalanyon even if they are, so what,life is too short
@ninalanyon
As long as the person isn't claiming to be what they are not who cares how they style their hair?

And even that can be nuanced. So much of culture really is just self-identification.
It doesn’t really bother me, so I would never comment to the person.

But I can remember in 1980 when Bo Derek wore cornrows for the movie "10" and immediately her hairstyle was dubbed "Bo’s Braids" in spite of previous generations of black women having worn such styles. I admit, that bothered me. My grandmother had very long hair and wore similar braids as a child, circa 1908. It just seemed like one more aspect of our culture for which someone else was trying to take credit.
smiler2012 · 61-69
[@primetime ] 🤔what s wrong with anyone having dreadlocks no matter your culture that is your choice to do so .your friend was rather sterotyping groups there with such a comment
exexec · 70-79, C
I see it occasionally. Recently, my son-in-law (white guy) was part of a friend's (black guy) wedding, so he let his hair grow and put in dreadlocks for the wedding. He only kept the style for a while.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
Dreadlocks have been a part of various cultures. Dreadlocks are traditional for Hassidic Jewish men, for example. In fact, growing up in New York, that is my primary association with dreadlocks.
@DrWatson Theirs don’t look like the Rastafarians, though, do they ? A big part of it is the hair texture. I wore locks for a time, but gave it up because my hair doesn’t consistently "lock" on some parts of my head.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@bijouxbroussard I guess not. When I saw a post about "dreadlocks", the first picture that came to mind was the Jewish kind.
@DrWatson I’ve heard them called "sidelocks" but I don’t know a lot of Hasidic Jewish people.
calicuz · 56-60, M
No, not if that's the culture she wants to take part in. It would be disrespectful to do it for laughs at Halloween or for a costume party, much like "Black Face," is inappropriate no matter what the situation.
markinkansas · 61-69, M
no its just hair.. and styles change . also depends on where you are raised..
ArishMell · 70-79, M
I can't see why it should be thought as that.
BeJeweled · 61-69, F
People should wear their hair anyway they want to. Same goes for what they wear.
The question is why did she feel like having it done?
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@bijouxbroussard That's outrageous! And I think probably illegal here if it had any negative employment consequences.

It seems that it would be illegal in the US too, see:
https://www.geurtslawfirm.com/blog/2021/08/can-your-employer-restrict-your-hairstyles/

And certainly here in Norway(and in the UK and EU I think) if it applied only to women then it would be flat out illegal on sex discrimination grounds. See (in Norwegian):
https://www.hrmagasinet.no/kan-man-kreve-at-kvinnelige-ansatte-bruker-sminke---og-at-menn-ikke-far-gjor-det/514642
@ninalanyon It’s illegal now (although under Trump that could change). But the same people who would refuse to hire someone with visible tattoos or men with long hair could decide that having an Afro or locks was "unprofessional". And they could legally make that judgment until the law changed.
@EarthlingWise I do understand what you’re saying. If I chose to get a Mohawk haircut, for example, it would be my choice, but I’d also be making a statement.
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Habby2 · 18-21, F
It's neither, it's just hair. People who cry about cultural appropriation need to get over that nonsense lol.
PrimeTime · 51-55, M
@Habby2 Thats what I thought too.
@Habby2 It’s one of those things that you either understand or you just don’t. The people who feel strongly aren’t "getting over it" anytime soon because what it represents to them isn’t changing.
PrimeTime · 51-55, M
@bijouxbroussard Well put
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@peter40 On the butt!
peter40 · 36-40, M
DestroyerOfIdeologies · 22-25, M
Dreadlocks aren't even originally from humans. Predators were the first to wear it.
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DestroyerOfIdeologies · 22-25, M
I think hair styles and even hair should be banned. We should all just be bald. Problem solve
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Its a hairstyle. Maybe her mom or dad is black. No big deal
kutee · T
wellblackpeople often straighten their hair, the world can do as they wish,its called freedom
All culture is cultural appropriation.

And white girls with dreads are hot.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I love white girls with dreads, but they’re always way too scary for me, they either smoke stuff or are super cool. @BohemianBabe
@Strongtea If they're scary, that's just another bonus. 😏
Patriot96 · 56-60, C
Saw people with a booger catcher in their nose. Is that a throwback to slavery

 
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