What do you think about these words?

Falling in love happens easily,often and frequently without reason or rationality :Eros. Staying in love is harder a commitment to the loved one come what may,it has a transcendent quality that you choose..i was looking for a quote ,couldn't find the one i wanted so these two will have to suffice


“When the two people who thus discover that they are on the same secret road are of different sexes, the friendship which arises between them will very easily pass – may pass in the first half hour – into erotic love. Indeed, unless they are physically repulsive to each other or unless one or both already loves elsewhere, it is almost certain to do so sooner or later. And conversely, erotic love may lead to Friendship between the lovers. But this, so far from obliterating the distinction between the two loves, puts it in a clearer light. If one who was first, in the deep and full sense, your Friend, is then gradually or suddenly revealed as also your lover you will certainly not want to share the Beloved’s erotic love with any third. But you will have no jealousy at all about sharing the Friendship. Nothing so enriches an erotic love as the discovery that the Beloved can deeply, truly and spontaneously enter into Friendship with the Friends you already had; to feel that not only are we two united by erotic love but we three or four or five are all travelers on the same quest, have all a common vision.”
― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves

Two stubborn pieces of iron
G.K. Chesterton

Very few people ever state properly the strong argument in favour of marrying for love or against marrying for money. The argument is not that all lovers are heroes and heroines, nor is it that all dukes are profligates or all millionaires cads. The argument is this, that the differences between a man and a woman are at the best so obstinate and exasperating that they practically cannot be got over unless there is an atmosphere of exaggerated tenderness and mutual interest. To put the matter in one metaphor, the sexes are two stubborn pieces of iron; if they are to be welded together, it must be while they are red-hot. Every woman has to find out that her husband is a selfish beast, because every man is a selfish beast by the standard of a woman. But let her find out the beast while they are both still in the story of "Beauty and the Beast." Every man has to find out that his wife is cross—that is to say, sensitive to the point of madness: for every woman is mad by the masculine standard. But let him find out that she is mad while her madness is more worth considering than anyone else's sanity.

reminds me of this phrase I read somewhere and I paraphrase it, "people are attracted to each other by looks, but stay in a relationship by personality"

I don’t want to overstep, but I’m not sure if you mean the thought itself or the way you have written out the thought. If I were to write this it would read like this.

We fell in love with the little things, things that endear us to one another. We walk in love by way of character and depth of understanding. We strive together in unity, in solidarity.

But that just because it more my style. I see nothing wrong with how you’ve said what you’ve said
and I do see truth to this!

And we walk away coz?

I've loved for a long time before I fell in love. And to be honest I'm not too sure I know the difference. It's more a question of intensity and evolution.

Matters of the heart are complicated. I feel many a times, the reason for falling-in and falling-out of love can be same. Same qualities that draws us to a person, can also make us leave that person over a period of time...

I think true love has more to do with relating to the other's mind, thinking, and feelings towards others. Not that I'm asexual !

I have so much to offer here, but my philosophical insight isn't at its best; explanation wise right now. It's more than worthwhile for discussion.♥️

Hopefully I can return to it.

big things you get used to because they have the most impact. while small things can add up and be bothersome or cute!

I agree. And I'm all for walking and think I always have been. And its important to be able to disagree or at least accept the possibility.

When one fall out of love, i think it's for selfish reasons, boredom, unrealistic expectations. Childlike decisions that will later become regrets. 🙄😔💔
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To me, words "little" & "big" don't make much sense to me here.

🤷🏻‍♀️ that all sounds like discovering chemistry and compatibility to me, not love itself. ‘Love’ mixed with all that had more to do with trust built over time.

Personalities are a double edged sword. My ex is a psychopath with an enviable personality.

wise words indeed! totally love this the kind of love that will grow and flourish. this totally makes me melt in awwe..

Tits are good too, bouncing about the place.

I am way too Dumb for such heavy concepts!
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@SW-User So what do you think of Glassysky & Would You Do Hin

100% agree!

We fall in love with people who are passionate about us as we are them.
Even if they are no good. 🙂

You can fall.. 👄 you can walk...👄... but I DANCE🕺⭐

Edit: I wanted a lil star too 🥺

I think it's accurate.

I totally agree