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Some Of Us Are Just A Paycheck Away

Something to think about....
What if you were a single parent with a child . You work full time for $14.00 hr. You bring home roughly $800 .00 per paycheck (bi-weekly).
Your bills:
$1, 000 . 00 / rent
$150 .00 / electrical
$250 .00 / car payment
$150 .00 / car insurance
So let’s do the math :
You bring home about
$1,600 .00 a month & your bills average about $1,550.00 (give or take).
You’re making it, but barely.
This doesn't even include groceries, internet, cable, cell phone, etc .
(nor does it include child tax credit, or child support)
Now, it’s a really cold December and you get a power bill for $600 .00
How do you pay that?
To put it simply , you don’t.
Because you can’t.
So your power gets shut off.
But you know what your lease says?
It says you get evicted if your utilities are terminated.
So now you’re in court crying to a judge who doesn’t care, & you have 10 days to get out.
Well you’re in luck, because you found somewhere with 3 days to spare & it’s only $650.00 a month!
But to get in, you must pass a background & credit check. Which you can’t because you just got evicted.
You’ve never been a criminal, but even if you could pass it, you’re looking at $1300 to move in, after paying the deposit & first month’s rent.
Time’s up ....
Landlord shows up at 7am with the police & changed your locks.
So, now you’re living in your car with your 7 year old son & everything you need to get by.
You tried to get a storage unit, but you don’t have a billing address so they won’t sell one to you. So you could only take what would fit in your backseat.
You pay to shower at local truck stops & eat whatever can be cooked in a gas station microwave.Someone sees you & your son living like this & calls C.P.S; guess what happens next ? ? ?
They remove your child from your care.
As if this isn’t devastating enough, you lose your job too. (Because “an employee losing their child reflects poorly on this company .”)
So now, you apply for an apartment with the region where the waiting list is 3-7 years.
Then you go into Wal-Mart to put in an application.
When you get back to your car you see that your back window has been smashed & someone helped themselves to your belongings. Remember that it is December & really cold. Now you have damage to your only shelter.
You call your car insurance, who says your deductible is $1,000.00
~ AND ~ they’re going to increase your monthly rate since you’re now
“ high risk .”
You call the homeless shelter as a last resort & all their beds are full.
I’ll stop here .....
Because I think you get the point .
The people we work with everyday are these people .
WE ARE THESE PEOPLE .
We are all so close to homelessness & don’t even realize it .
All it takes is :
* one unexpected bill📃~
* one fender bender🚙💥🚗~
* one lay-off 📊~
* one house fire 🏠🔥 , etc.
Instead of talking trash about people who are poor , homeless , or need assistance , why don’t you try being grateful that you’re not in their shoes ...... YET !
This is about staying humble & being kind .
BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE ❤
Piper · 61-69, F
I have thought about it, many times. What you've written has been true for so many people, or some similar version of it. That is why it sickens me, when I see or hear people *smirking, *giggling or making self-righteous sounding judgements about people who are "poor" , homeless or need assistance.
Many of those same people have received plenty of assistance themselves, along the way. Yet, they seem to forget that when they are doing just fine.
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@Piper most people are stupid lil fuckers

And there are gems sprinkled in there

I don’t know which I am, but I know which I prefer to be around
Peaches · F
@Piper YES, 😠 how quickly they forget!
Piper · 61-69, F
@WaryWitchWandering There are plenty of gems sprinkled in there, but I know it doesn't always seem so.
I know which I prefer to be around, too.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
I don't know if this is the direction you were heading with this so I will just do what I always do and put my two cents in anyway.

Maybe you don't have any experience with this but you wouldn't believe how easy it is for a woman much less a mother to get State assistance.
They will pay your rent or give you a rent free place to live. Well not rent-free it's based off your income. I have seen people paying $55 a month for a two bedroom.
Also, it is a very fast process especially if you are a mother or even just a woman.
The system is horribly abused. But I think it is worth it for the good that it does for real people in need.
Did this sound like I was a know-it-all?
Wasn't meant to.
RedBaron · M
@Dainbramadge You obviously haven't worked in NYCHA projects. They are poorly maintained.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@RedBaron actually my buddy just reminded me that when he was in Phoenix he lived in state run apartment complex.
He said it was well maintained as well.
On another note, I have seen huge, huge complexes in Chicago that were horribly run down that were state-run. These things had to be like 30 stories tall and there was three of them all right next to each other.
So I guess it probably has a lot to do with location.
RedBaron · M
@Dainbramadge The ones here are run by the city, and there are always issues with elevators not working and people not getting enough heat in winter.
pedrohedgerow · 61-69, M
I hate the system we are trapped in,from birth to death,and those who enforce it.One thing we may still possess,which they lost looooooong ago,is our soul.The most precoius asset any of us will ever own.🥂
Peaches · F
@pedrohedgerow Amen! 🙏💫
chrisCA · M
I am afraid it is going to get worse with the increase in housing costs all over the World.
You can predict class struggle, if not class warfare.
Peaches · F
@chrisCA YES, there's gonna be a war right here in the USA among ourselves!😟
chrisCA · M
@Peaches Well. Much will depend on how governments handle homelessness, and affordable housing.
Some municipalities are persecuting the poor.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
This is so sad.minimum wage has to be higher. How can they be so selfish and heartless? Gosh it makes me sick
Peaches · F
@Eddiesolds It makes me sick too!😔
Those who are able to fund a car are the lucky ones... ususlly, over time, the car gets to be too expensive to keep, too - then these people end up in tents.

The lucky few might manage to get a spot among other homeless people who can help to watch over them as they sleep. The unlucky ones will be alone and dreading falling asleep in case something bad happens while they sleep.
Peaches · F
@HootyTheNightOwl OMG, 😟 it's so scary to think about!
@Peaches The part that I find most difficult to live with is the fact that men are much more likely to get lost in long term homelessness than women are.
Peaches · F
@HootyTheNightOwl YES, 😔 it happened to my brother when he fell out of a window and broke his leg while doing construction work. He had no job and no one would help him!👎Thank goodness I was there!
Jeffrey53 · 51-55, M
That’s same with single person with out a child. Single parent can ask for government assistance
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
You are 10,000% right! This [i][b]could [b][i] happen to any of us. Thank you sometimes we need a reminder. 🤗
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
And you didnt even figure in the extra hundreds for gasoline per month to get to work
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
I like this

And it’s true
Peaches · F
@WaryWitchWandering Something better has to happen soon!!!😟
RedBaron · M
Such is life. But where does a thousand bucks a month get you any kind of decent housing? The apartments in my building range from $3250 for a one-bedroom and $3400/$3700 for the two-bedrooms. And they're walk-ups.
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
I've been living on $800 a month since 2012. Yayyy disability.
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
@Peaches They make it as hard as they can to get any sort of help at all and it's soul crushing. So tired of being forced to jump through hoops when simply existing is hard enough to begin with.
Peaches · F
@thepreposterouspanda How I remember! 😭💔
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
@Peaches It's all just so bogus. Since it's based on what you did before you became disabled, the fact that I was an assistant manager at a pizza place has been a highly unfortunate thing. 😅
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Thevy29 · 41-45, M
$14 an hour is pretty darn low, is this the base rate?
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
Also, if my kids got taken away from me I would lose my shit
Doesn't even take a low paying job.
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Peaches · F
@MarmeeMarch No, but I've slept in my car for a night before a friend offered to help me years ago.😔
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Peaches · F
@MarmeeMarch YES, I was lucky. 🍀

 
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