Don't You Hate It When...?

Sorry to hear that,
Friends made whether in R/L or Online [b]need care, [/b]not only when [b]you[/b] feel the need for companionship.

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A friendly hello, comment, or actually visiting them and maybe just dropping off some pastries and then leaving.

They/We all have lives to live and sometimes it gets hectic! Understanding this you might give everyone the benefit of a doubt.
Not all will drop whatever their doing for you just because you've decided to stop-by.

i.e. had this friend, the only time he calls is when he needs help (house sitting w/pets, moving lumber, fixing electronics, or just plain lonely).

When I needed help, I was questioned, badgered, etc.,. And yet all he had to do for me was let me use his car-port for me to work on my vehicle (job was completed) with-out any help from him. (18yrs. Of being a friend to him.)

So if your hurt ask yourself first, what have you done...,
Then if you've done all that you could, just let it go....,

The only person you should trust completely is yourself

Most people are using you for their own means. It may, or may not be conscious on their part, but it’s best to not get invested too much (time and emotions) in a person online.

That's narssistic behavior, not always but a lot of the times . Beware of those people.

Don't put all people in that bucket. Just dismiss those kind of people.