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Some compliments aren’t compliments

My best friend and I always hear people tell us we look good for our age. That’s a back handed compliment! ( we really don’t like the phrase for our age !). Sorry so insulting.
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SlippingAway · 46-50, F
Yes I get this any time I get carded and I know they don't really realize it's a back handed compliment. I usually just say ya I know I am old
Actually, they are telling you that you are a stand-out, looks-wise, in your age bracket.

They noticed that you look especially nice, better than your peers.

That doesn't sound at all awful.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
I can relate!
I can agree with you. But as far as insults go, this isn't the worst there is.
Sassygirl42 · 51-55, F
@froggtongue never said it was but I still get bothered by that phrase.
Bklynbadboy12 · 36-40, M
Your right that was back handed i was once told i speak well for a black guy. I just laughed and walk away. 🤣🤣🤣
Sassygirl42 · 51-55, F
@Bklynbadboy12 how awful
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Sassygirl42 · 51-55, F
@looking4thesun thank you so much for your kind words
@Sassygirl42 yvw young lady 🙂
Wiseacre · F
Yeah, why not just say “you look good”
Sassygirl42 · 51-55, F
@Wiseacre exactly
PatKirby · M
When they say 'ok, boomer' I just say 'ok, renter'.
Yes. It's an insult in disguise.. and it comes with no complimentary stuff but just stuffed into our ears ..
It sure beats, "You look bad for your age"...right?
SW-User
People really need to learn how to phrase things

 
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