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GunFinger I know that I tend to find that STBX has other reasons behind his actions when I push him to explain himself to me.
Like yesterday, for example, he's suddenly decided that I am going to Portsmouth Docks with him at some time in the future and he told me as much - no, he didn't ask me if I wanted to go. So I started to push.
He started rambling about the docks being a place for sailors and warships and how I can go watch them while he's doing some paperwork.
Apparently, the woman from the other couple who does this job gets the men whistling at her and he wants me to do the same thing.
The problem with that is that it's way out of character for him. He hates the idea of other men looking at me - hence why I have gone out of my way to look as unappealing as possible.
Something is telling me that I am still not at the bottom of this matter, though. I mean, he has no reason for such a drastic change in his demeanour after all this time.
