Definitely

Typically, yes.

I really, really try to be good to both.

I used to be. Learned the hard way.

Im very generous when it comes to family and friends. after that, there aint much to go around. LOL

100%. I need to change that.

Yes. And frankly that needs to change.

Always. I have others in my life I love to death, including my four-month old baby. But I still have a lot of self-hatred deep down.

Guilty as charge

I'm harder on myself and more helpful to others

Mostly

Not anymore. Being depleted doesn't do anyone any good.

I’d imagine it’s the case for many and an interesting psychological subject.

Not anymore.

Nah, I hate people.

nope

Not so much anymore. I've learned how important it is to not attempt to keep "pouring from an empty cup" and that I need to give some of that grace, good advice and kindness to myself as well.

Sometimes

On ONE day a week I go into full service mode. Half kill myself usually...and take care of EVERYONE I can. The rest of the week I retreat to my little hole and I don't poke my head out...much.

Not as much as I used to be ...I was a doormat to.be used because you know as long as others are happy while you're slowly dying inside ...pffft no more of this nonsense

I wish the silent scape-goat/pawns would chime in. 🤐

Yes