SlippingAway · 46-50, F
That's a fear I can relate to very much, as I get older but the right person won't be superficial and will see below the surface. I wouldn't lose interest in someone for those reasons, so I hope that there are others out there like that too. Unfortunately love takes vulnerability and that's hard AF when you've been burned and made to feel less than.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@SlippingAway The hardest part is knowing the love we're capable of, yet having to be afraid that loyalty won't be reciprocated.
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
@ScreamingFox I've wasted so much of my life thinking I wasn't good enough for people, when I should have been questioning if they were good enough for me as well. Any one who would drop you for those reasons aren't worthy of you!
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
I feel that way because I've had open heart surgery and have a twelve inch scar on my chest. Who the fuck would ever want me looking like that? I just don't know. I know I'm a good, kindhearted person, but would anyone ever think I was attractive ever again, now that I'm damaged goods?
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@HowtoDestroyAngels But you're not damaged goods, and anyone who would look at a scar and think that is damaged in their soul and better avoided.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@HowtoDestroyAngels I would kiss your scars. I've had a double lumpectomy so one of my tits has a huge scar and is mishaped. It's not something I'm ashamed of, just knowing how much emphasis is on tits makes me uncomfortable though.
I personally find it all attractive if I love someone, but very worried others aren't the same.
I personally find it all attractive if I love someone, but very worried others aren't the same.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@HowtoDestroyAngels Women don't tend to care about stuff like that if you caught their interest for entirely different reasons.
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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@DearAmbellina2113 I think there's a lot of amazing people out there that have been hurt too many times. It's just not worth the heartbreak.
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@Shybutwilling2bfriends I think it's for the best
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ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@ChipmunkErnie I understand that is true for some, but a lot of people are very shallow
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@ScreamingFox Yes, both men and women. I think maybe the best is not to have unrealistic expectation s, to remember that no one is perfect, and it's the willingness to understand each other that probably is most important.