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Does love stress you out? In relationships, with family or friends, does love strain your heart?

Does everyone feel that pain?
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I think all relationships can be stressful. If it's worth having, takes work to make it work. Which can be stressful. But also very rewarding.
FrozenWasteland · 61-69, M
I think it did once, but as I've slowly learned to love more selflessly -- the stress departed.

I feel like if a person loves the best they can, without expectations, it's largely stress-free.
Yes, we all feel that. Love is when you're willing to act lovingly even if you're not feeling particularly loving at the moment.
Wiseacre · F
Kind of...I'd rather not be in love...always worried about the end of it. What I have now is perfect: I have a deep emotional connection with my partner.
Tumbleweed · F
Love stresses me TF out. I don't want any parts of it.
My family & friends, well they're all nuts but loving them is a given.
As far as relationships, I don't have any left to give and I don't want it either. It's exhausting & smothering.
forestgirl · 46-50, F
@Tumbleweed I love this. I reached my zenith with marriage and relationships. I've come out of my shell.
Tumbleweed · F
@forestgirl Love yourself now, girl!! You earned it!! I can't do relationships anymore. I'm just not good at it :(
Wiseacre · F
@Tumbleweed totally get it
Blondily · F
Yes going thru a tough time right now
Blondily · F
@MarbleMarvel just going something right now concerning family
@Blondily sending love to you 🫂 I wish I could help in some way. Just know I'm thinking of you along with others here who care for you 🖤
Blondily · F
@MarbleMarvel you're a very caring person. Thank you, sincerely. 😊
being · 36-40, F
Yes, but it also soothes me, relaxes me 🌸
@being does that soothing feeling last for you?

I used to feel that, but things changed.
being · 36-40, F
@MarbleMarvel it doesn't last but it arrives just like the sun and then it goes away
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
One of the main reasons I keep to myself
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
It can sometimes. Sometimes love is a choice you have to make. It shouldn't ALWAYS be that, though.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
It depends on the people involved but yeah i felt that.
Allelse · 36-40, M
Nah, it's all the other shit that can go along with it. Love itself feels great. I love a beautiful soul, I love a kind act, I love nice big pair of tits, I love a beautiful sunset, I love a gentle heart. Byt there's always baggage of some kind, which is why you gotta set limits.
Bri89 · 31-35, M
Yes, which is why I don't do it anymore.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
No idea anymore.
Perfect love doesn't stress me out. Neither do unicorns.
Its so common .. there is a song about it ... 🙄

[media=https://youtu.be/soDZBW-1P04]
empanadas · 31-35, M
Yeah, main reason i love being single and why I cut off toxic loved ones from my life
@empanadas it kinda hurts too, but I'm the same. No drama period.
Musicman · 61-69, MVIP
Nope! Not at all.

 
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