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Is she playing around?

So my colleague at work wanted to go out with me to a restaurant last time. It was a full fledged plan but last moment she cancelled said she had guests. Even today she did the same saying she was out and is tired. Honestly i am not going to ask or go with her after twice this incident took place. Why would someone do this?

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Carazaa · F

Because she is tired she just told you. Don’t take it personal. But do communicate in a kind way your needs. You could say “ I like you, but it’s frustrating when you cancel because I was really looking forward being with you tonight., let’s plan for next week but please don’t cancel! again.” Sanguine people are flaky!

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Carazaa · F

@littlepuppywantanewlife why not share that you were sad she cancelled?

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Carazaa i did. I am funny so things so easy for me. But i am not serious when she asks me next time. As I told her already about how I felt. Also i joined a gym with my other friend. 🙂

Carazaa · F

@littlepuppywantanewlife Good idea!

LadyGrace · 70-79

I feel she is putting you off. I wouldn't ask her out again. I know it wasn't a date but you know what I'm saying. Yes she is toying with you.

Adogslife · 61-69, M

Why does it matter? It sounds like you’re merely friends, so why worry? Just don’t make plans a third time.

If you’d like to go out, find a real date to have legitimate fun with.

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Adogslife Yes i should not care. It's not about relationship but it's about keeping commitment.

Adogslife · 61-69, M

@littlepuppywantanewlife I’d agree, but perhaps she’s a bit scattered…

eyeno · M

What I'd say the first time,"well, when you're ready give me a call." and leave it at that.
Don't chase something that might never happen and someone so wishy-washy.

Vivaci

She needs space. So don’t give her too much attention

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Vivaci Yeah! Next time she asks i would not entertain her. I would still be polite to her at work.

Vivaci

@littlepuppywantanewlife Yeah….ignoring is the best policy

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Vivaci i wanted to ask you something inbox.

RebelFox · 36-40, F

She may not really be that interested.

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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@RebelFox See. I understand this because i have been facing that at work. She is younger so i guess i would let it go anyway.

RebelFox · 36-40, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife If you guys are buds and you care, you could talk to her about it. I doubt she wants to hurt you. Probably hurting herself worse to keep turning down dinner with a nice guy. Might help you both understand and help her in the long run if she knows being honest won’t get her hated 🖤

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@RebelFox Thank you. I think of her as a friend. I do care about people. 🙂

SomeMichGuy · M

I think you are her "plan B", the backup only if nothing better comes along.

nedkelly · 61-69, M

Maybe this song will help you

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