Do you quickly get overly attached to someone?

@ExtremeNext Well now that's just rude! if you get a potato at least send back some chips, or a mr potato man!

@kimmy159 haha you are at that perfect age where you're young and have the beauty and healthy body, but old enough for that sweet wisdom! very lovely! ☺️
also i'm not that different i might technically be with a different generation but most of my friends and family were from your age, and old fashioned parent's so i lived not very different from you, at least mentality wise.

but i think i'm at a good point, i mean i seek any bad thing to detach myself, but to reattached is tough afterwards

@popmol aww bedankt ;) een ‘oudere’ mentaliteit is niet zo slecht in de hedendaagse maatschappij ^^ at least that’s what I think 😄 gonna hit the sheets! Slaapwel

@kimmy159 WAIT!? you are dutch? i never knew! or i knew and forgot 🤪
ooh nee! zeker niet! ik ben geen fan van de moderne kinderen, en de ouderen ook niet persee! ze zagen altijd over "millennials" online maar ik denk dat het op het moment in belgië een goeie generatie is.

that was my plan too but i was getting distracted by youtube! slaapwel!

@DerSilberneKonig1 very cruel indeed!

@thinkingoutloud i'm on a bunch of apps, but haven't used most of them in at least 2 years. they are still just on my phone xD
i'm not good for it , people say there are people who like bigger men but i don't get the likes on the app, and even if i get a like i'm not interesting enough to keep up the conversation
so i don't care about them anymore 🤣

@popmol so how would you meet someone?

@thinkingoutloud i genuinely don't know i hope in the future at my job or maybe if i go to an event for cosplay or dnd or something!

@thewindupbirdchronicles i just attach until i fall off xD

@popmol An open heart and then a closed door?

@thewindupbirdchronicles i easily attach but if it gets soured quite easily if done the wrong thing. like a lovely lady boom attached, kill someone no problem i'll keep it up, but then do something sour to me i easily release.
like someone who denied science and did antivax, 95% of fascination instant gone.

i think its a part of my autism ass i hear loads of autistic people do the same where they easily attach to someone and then they are THE person! their favourite person and you want to spend all your time with them!

i learned from a young age people dislike someone attaching so i try to do it slowly not instant and constant.
but it hurts because of the easy attachment and fascination, if i get dropped without reason it hurts immensely! friends from here or EP that i talked to for months that just poof and disappeared! such heartbreak ;(

@nedkelly not even me 🥲

@BeefySenpie ooh no! 😱

@WandererTony
Learning delay in some of the humans? 😁🙏

@CookieCrumbs You are right 😊

@CookieCrumbs i learned it pretty quickly but its so tough!

@AllelujahHaptism thats unfortunate! i found that if i jsut find one fault i build on it massively! to push me off!

like just a sound they often make? maybe their laugh. some comment i made i mull over to the point i become to despise them. it's better than being overly attached.

@popmol wish i could do that sometimes :(

@AllelujahHaptism try training it!

@ImpeccablyImperfect i have heard the stuff "MO" but what does it stand for?
yes become the impeccable imperfect fortress

@popmol MO stands for modus operandi….meaning, the usual routine, or go-to pattern….

@ImpeccablyImperfect yeah i knew the meaning 🤣 mostly through context but i just never knew what i stood for, pretty cool to know!

@DavidScott well thats attraction :p

@RubySoo i'm glad for you :)

@Ontheroad great to know!

@Lilymoon so i wasn't instantly as cute as a button to you?

@popmol no just a big teddy bear 😁

@Lilymoon but when we met on EP i was still a little teddy bear 🤔🤣

@SimplyLogicalDiscipline it's that bad? so you couldn't even talk to me for long?

@popmol it's really very bad, I took a short break from SW so I wasn't talking to you

@SimplyLogicalDiscipline ooh well i always miss ya! you're lovely!

@SW-User i find that easier too now, but i slow down the attachment instead! or the severity of it!

@Fishy but how will you get a fishy buddy?

@eventtemple123 that's no bueno unless they never hurt you!

@Raaii that can be bad!

@WandererTony ooh i see! yeah thats tough!

@GeistInTheMachine great!

@popmol ok

@popmol but they don’t stay loyal to me or stay with me

@MonaReeves86 i'm so sorry to hear ;( thats cruel!

@deathfairy is that a good thing for them i mean a death fairy sounds both exiting and scary!

@Lilnonames no you seem more standoffish!