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Do you quickly get overly attached to someone?

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kimmy159 · F
Definitely was the case in the past but then I learned that you can only really rely on yourself or only set expectations for yourself. Other people will never meet (all of) them and sometimes people change their minds.
popmol · 22-25, M
@kimmy159 that is true! it will be tough to find someone who would mark all the right options.
kimmy159 · F
@popmol i guess you could say that there’s not much of a point trying to find a person who does ^^ Finding someone who is close to it and who wants to do effort for you, is usually better.
I’ve stopped forming unrealistic attachments as soon as I realized that.
popmol · 22-25, M
@kimmy159 i'm glad you are having healthy look at this stuff! wish i could do the same ☺️
kimmy159 · F
@popmol You’re a bit younger than me ;p you’ll get there some day maybe, although life in delusion is fun too xD jk
popmol · 22-25, M
@kimmy159 true delusions are fun! but not handy! i already learned to when i attach very quickly that for my safety i'll unattached quickly!

wait you are only a little bit older are you around 30?
kimmy159 · F
@popmol 32 yep 😁 but I always felt like I learned around from your age onwards till now 😁 feels like a different generation even though it’s not that many years haha
popmol · 22-25, M
@kimmy159 haha you are at that perfect age where you're young and have the beauty and healthy body, but old enough for that sweet wisdom! very lovely! ☺️
also i'm not that different i might technically be with a different generation but most of my friends and family were from your age, and old fashioned parent's so i lived not very different from you, at least mentality wise.

but i think i'm at a good point, i mean i seek any bad thing to detach myself, but to reattached is tough afterwards
kimmy159 · F
@popmol aww bedankt ;) een ‘oudere’ mentaliteit is niet zo slecht in de hedendaagse maatschappij ^^ at least that’s what I think 😄 gonna hit the sheets! Slaapwel
popmol · 22-25, M
@kimmy159 WAIT!? you are dutch? i never knew! or i knew and forgot 🤪
ooh nee! zeker niet! ik ben geen fan van de moderne kinderen, en de ouderen ook niet persee! ze zagen altijd over "millennials" online maar ik denk dat het op het moment in belgië een goeie generatie is.

that was my plan too but i was getting distracted by youtube! slaapwel!