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That's no one's business. They shouldn't be asking you that in the first place. It's intrusive.

On another note , try to not be paranoid a both what one person thinks. If he asks you again I'd report to HR for harassment.
TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T
@greensnacks It just bothers me that I don't know why he keeps asking. The action itself is harmless, and being a health care worker he's not allowed to share any of my info, so reporting him seems a bit harsh.


Maybe I should just bite the proverbial bullet and ask him next time.

WillaKissing · 56-60, M
I am sorry about the Bar episode you had, truly I am and why I won't drink when I go out.

About that guy at the store, I believe he knows nothing about your episode at the bar nor you being trans. I think he is purely interested in you and is flirting with you, especially given the mischievous smile... That would be a good flirt tack tick I would employ. The meaning he is coming off with is "Oh, you have not changed your last name yet", as in you have not gotten married yet in the old world tradition of taking the guys last name, asking you this is a round about way of fishing for are you engaged or dating. Nothing about you being secretly trans. The guy is into you and likes your look.

This would be my take on this.
TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T
@WillaKissing interresting take, but I doubt it. I'm not the kind of person someone (sober) flirts with
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@TheRealBarbossa And so you say! How would you know unless you asked him, because every body has their own idea of the perfect person to like and crush on that is not shared with world like a slogan on a T-shirt. How do you know what someone thinks unless you ask them, right.
TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T
@WillaKissing as someone with a unique taste in men myself, I should know better than to brush it off as nonsense, I guess 🙈
It certainly sounds like he knows. Other than being in that bar, he may be on SW 🤔
TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T
@NerdyPotato I haven't seen any norwegians on here that match him, but I guess I'll never know.


I wanna ask him directly why he asks, but honestly, I don't wanna be reminded of that night. Or get any more detail.

 
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