Is this really how it is here?

There are some users who pore over the feed looking for posts that they can interpret in a fetishistic way. I have been received those kinds of messages as well

But there are plenty of people here who are not that way. And often, you will see people making posts that are parodies of the "obsessive" crowd

At any rate, I am sorry that you had such negative experiences that you decided to cut ties with your family. That had to be painful.

Yes. This is literally how it always is. Ok that's a lie...it CAN get worse.

I'd ask when you deleted your old account to gauge an idea of when things got this far gone around here buuuuut I doubt the timeframe would be a decent unit of measurement.

Good luck, my friend!

There are tons of people who will jump on a post like that due to their fetishes. Block them, adjust your pm filters to friends only, etc

pretty much. I had somebody try to fetishize my twin sister once. She died in the womb.

Yeah lol you get used to it but try to ignore them

Yup. It's how it is.

Yes, it is how many freaks are here. Spend all day waiting in the shadows for their sickness crumbs. It's just as bad when people find it funny, it encourages it. I'd report those messages.

Sometimes, you just have to tell them that you aren't interested in talking to the sick freaks - and they leave you alone after you've reported and blocked a few of them.

It is pedos.
It is this way because the majority of community members are too lazy and too indifferent to report things of the sort.
Some of them even encourage threads like that.
Please report the messages.

Sometimes you just mention that topic and people will start blocking you because they think you are one of them.

It takes a while to block out the fetish people

people read different things into the same information....

Are you now going to talk about the 'other people' who messaged you, who never mentioned a thing about the physical discipline you received as a kid?

People here can be weird. Ignore them.