Not that I have to explain myself because I don’t… but some of y’all need to be reminded

There is no need to be ugly. But I hope it was coming from a place of concern for you.
From someone who came out of an abuse marriage then fell for a narcissist I do think you should tread very lightly here and don’t rush into marriage. It can take a while for someone’s true intentions to come to light.
I too believed he was too good for me and that I didn’t deserve someone like that. That’s a very dangerous mindset to have in any relationship. We had what I thought was 6 good years together but it was just him controlling and spinning his web tighter. When he decided he was done he spent almost a year completely breaking me first.

Just because you've known someone for years doesn't mean !@#$. We all change as life goes on, and something that you "know" right now probably won't mean anything 20 years from now. Just say'n. Good luck.

Anytime we enjoy something or are happy with a situation, someone will try to ruin it for us. Especially when it comes to relationships. We think, "D4mn, can't you just be happy for me?"

I do not know what people were saying in PMs, I can only imagine.

I wouldn't worry about what others think because this relationship is just for you and him.

I hate to see this @MommaBear. You know what you want, and so does he. But try to see that no one can be too good for you. If that’s actually the case, then strive to be better. Best of luck.

Well, for what it's worth, I like you 🫂

People can be horrible for no reason. Sorry you're enduring that :(

Hope you blocked them all.

So many miserable people can only feel good stomping others. Don't let their contempt steal your content. Your happy wont change their hate so claim your happy and enjoy it.

These are probably envious people.

They're miserable and are looking for company : |