I think it depends on the relationship they have. Some couples build up a co-dependency in which they hate to be apart. (Which btw can be very mentally unhealthy)
This seeing each other every single day should change as the relationship moves forward, especially if it leads to marriage. Usually, there is college, then full time jobs, and other responsibilities that will keep you apart and give you time away from each other.
You'll just have to see how it plays out.
This seeing each other every single day should change as the relationship moves forward, especially if it leads to marriage. Usually, there is college, then full time jobs, and other responsibilities that will keep you apart and give you time away from each other.
You'll just have to see how it plays out.
Turtlepower · 36-40, M
It depends where in life we both are. I think that's an atypical amount of time to spend together on the beginning of a relationship but if neither of the people involved need a longer break then that's probably a good sign. Personally, as an introvert, I need some quiet time to decompress. If I don't get that, I can be a bit cranky lol
Lostpoet · M
Nope. I'd just make sure we weren't doing or talking about the same stuff all the time. Humans need novelty in life to be happy. It's not the partner that gets boring it's the surroundings.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
If you do, she isnt the one you want to marry.. Choose the right partner and you have enough in common now and into the future to make you want to share it all with them..
(My personal opinion is thst people set the bar for wanting to marry way too low.)😷
(My personal opinion is thst people set the bar for wanting to marry way too low.)😷
SomeMichGuy · M
@whowasthatmaskedman Agreed!
Docdon23 · M
I do believe we would both need some space--both alone time and time with friends--no problem at all!!
Magicianzini · M
I wouldn't even make it that long. That's why I've left several relationships around the 3 month mark .. far too much time together.
exexec · 70-79, C
Yes. Fortunately, when we were dating, her parents only allowed us to have one date per weekend during the school year and two dates in the summer. I needed the free time to go fishing and camping with my buddies.
Nah, I’d want to spend more time with her..
not every single minute of the day but definitely see her everyday.. six or seven months isn’t that long
not every single minute of the day but definitely see her everyday.. six or seven months isn’t that long
BillyMack · 46-50, M
No. But it would not be every day for 5-7 months. If either one of us changes the other in that way, that’s usually not a good thing.
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@BillyMack Ok I’m giving you a scenario where it IS everyday for months
BillyMack · 46-50, M
@AnonymousJSS space would be good to hang with friends. But wouldn’t be boredom. I’d want her to be with her friends too.
That would depend on our relationship, our level and depth of communication, and of course our personalities which may or may not require a change or space.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
sure I would - and so would she
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
I would get bored well before half a year.
Panamared · 70-79, M
She might be bored as well, people need variety in all things
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@Panamared True
eMortal · M
I get bored after 3 months.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I'd definitely need breathing room, yes
LeopoldBloom · M
Research has shown that the typical relationship lasts 22 months, which is usually enough time to produce at least one child, so from an evolutionary standpoint, this works.
dale74 · M
Depends on how the time is spent
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@dale74 5+ hours all day almost everyday just chilling together.
496sbc · 36-40, M
hell no id love it
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Depends on how cute her butt is.
SomeMichGuy · M
No.