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windinhishair Yes, I completely understand. You want to associate only with men in a bar, so find a bar that has a male bartender during the time you want to drink. If you go in and there is a woman bartender, you can leave. If there are other people there who you don't want to associate with, don't associate with them.
I am not a bar fly. A nice bar is a great stopping point when I run into one. It's not so much that I don't like women bartenders but it's the natural carmaraderie I have with the guy behind the bar wherever I go. I look forward to that banter over a beer. A woman is such a turn off. Sitting there at the bar and just sipping the brew doesn't do it for me.I would rather not drink. And I can't turn around and walk out. She would know she is the problem.
If there are other people there who you don't want to associate with, don't associate with them. And you can find a restaurant that serves the kind of food you want to eat. You just don't get to dictate whether that food will be served by a man, or woman, or someone non-binary.
Oh, I do get to dictate who serves my food. I only eat at my favorite restaurants; and both the staff and the clientele are great. The only thing I can't dictate is who are the people working in the kitchen. I don't want to know.