Can you control what you really want to control?

The remote is still right over there, as much as I out stretch my hand *using the Force* it's still there.😒

a person can only control themselves. Stoic 101.

usually i can but on the odd occasion if i am riled enough i can lose it [destinycalling]

No I can not

I'd like to think yes, but the universe oftentimes has other ideas

Ffs, I wish I could...