Can you control what you really want to control?

I'd like to think yes, but the universe oftentimes has other ideas

The remote is still right over there, as much as I out stretch my hand *using the Force* it's still there.😒

usually i can but on the odd occasion if i am riled enough i can lose it [destinycalling]

a person can only control themselves. Stoic 101.

No I can not

Ffs, I wish I could...