I Am a Quiet Person
I get so tired of people asking “why are you so quiet?”. It’s as if being quiet is a bad thing. It really gets on my nerves.
I get insecure a lot and sometimes worry that I don’t make any sense when I speak. So I stay quiet.
I give slow responses, because I observe and take in what is said. I choose my words very wisely, being careful not to say anything offensive or hurtful. And because of this, I miss out on a lot of fun conversations.
Everyone, especially my family, push me to talk and put me in the most uncomfortable situations. They force me to go to social gatherings in hopes I will talk. That just spikes my anxiety even more.
And while I’m writing this post, I’m worrying. Do I make sense, or am I just blabbering nonsensical stuff?
Funny thing is, sometimes when I create posts on here or other social media platforms, I ask someone. “Does this make sense?” Just to get an approval.
I get insecure a lot and sometimes worry that I don’t make any sense when I speak. So I stay quiet.
I give slow responses, because I observe and take in what is said. I choose my words very wisely, being careful not to say anything offensive or hurtful. And because of this, I miss out on a lot of fun conversations.
Everyone, especially my family, push me to talk and put me in the most uncomfortable situations. They force me to go to social gatherings in hopes I will talk. That just spikes my anxiety even more.
And while I’m writing this post, I’m worrying. Do I make sense, or am I just blabbering nonsensical stuff?
Funny thing is, sometimes when I create posts on here or other social media platforms, I ask someone. “Does this make sense?” Just to get an approval.