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I Am a Quiet Person

I get so tired of people asking “why are you so quiet?”. It’s as if being quiet is a bad thing. It really gets on my nerves.

I get insecure a lot and sometimes worry that I don’t make any sense when I speak. So I stay quiet.

I give slow responses, because I observe and take in what is said. I choose my words very wisely, being careful not to say anything offensive or hurtful. And because of this, I miss out on a lot of fun conversations.

Everyone, especially my family, push me to talk and put me in the most uncomfortable situations. They force me to go to social gatherings in hopes I will talk. That just spikes my anxiety even more.

And while I’m writing this post, I’m worrying. Do I make sense, or am I just blabbering nonsensical stuff?

Funny thing is, sometimes when I create posts on here or other social media platforms, I ask someone. “Does this make sense?” Just to get an approval.
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SW-User
It makes perfect sense and if you don't want to do thing out of your comfort zone I say all for it were ever you feel comfortable your family need to understand that. But I hope get the response your looking for
Henal · 26-30, F
@SW-User They never seem to understand that, no matter how many times I’ve tried explaining it to them.
SW-User
@Henal yep certain family memebers they are stuck in their way and will never change