What do you need in a partner?

@Sapio What can you sew?

@solitaire I can fix hems and stitch seams that have come apart, basic repairs to clothing.

@OrionInTheNight Hmmm the first two are definitely solid. But would you break any of those rules for someone that you really liked and believed in?

@REMsleep Absolutely not.

@PerfectionOfTheHeart It seems like we are both looking for the same impossible to find combination.

@Beaker4444 Should we lower our standards? Or just start the search for a magic lamp? Both kinda sound exhausting.

@PerfectionOfTheHeart You nailed it. Not taken for granted is top of the list. And acceptance of who we are without judgement.

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout that’s important

@SW-User Do you ever get bored of the same person?
Shouldn't sex be passionate and good not just regular??

@REMsleep Frequent sex suggests that it's good. I should have said regular and enthusiastic sex. One shouldn't be forced. I don't want a relationship in which sex is weaponized, and I don't think you love a person if you deny them sex. Dead bedroom marriages are a thing and I think it is those people that shouldn't get married, not people enthusiastic to enjoy each other.

@mindstruggle I'm confused. You don't need a companion??? Anymore or you have no requirements from your companions??

@Adogslife Did you have to pay alimony in divorce court? 😆

@solitaire Both children were adults, so there was no child support. The alimony was massive.

@Adogslife Hmmm. I guess laws vary from country to country.

@Tastyfrzz It seems like she wants just a good friend and companion but you want more. You want sexual intimacy and true togetherness possibly in one house hold.
I think that I can understand her a bit.
As women we often give our best years when we had strength and energy to some guy who maybe didn't appreciate it and after a while it's tiring. With hormones and lack of activity women can become settled and satisfied without sex but it rare that they don't crave intimacy from a companion
It's not the same for men.
She doesn't want your money. She just wants a good male friend that she can trust and share experiences with. She doesn't want to go back to younger days using her time to cook and clean for a man. Sex is probably more work than enjoyable to her.
That's what you are to her.
That's my guess and I don't think that I am wrong.

@REMsleep she likes to clean, and i like to cook so it's kinda symbiotic. She's never been married and did not have kids. I think the anxiety was mostly from lack of sleep. I feel better now. I did take two valarian too.

@SmileOnYourBrother Bro I'm from India. For plumbing problems we hire a plumber and for electrical problems we hire an electician. For mechanical problems we sent the car to the mechanic 😃.

@SmileOnYourBrother Does not matter cos I am most probably going to remain single. I do have a right to express what my ideal partner would be like though 🤔

@solitaire Well then you can hire a maid to "share" in the household chores. Fair? I hope YOU are "financially stable". Maids, electricians, nmechanics, and plumbers cost a lot of money. 🤭😉
Anyway, I can cover sharing the household chores. What do you offer in return besides astronomical service bills? (as if I don't already know 🤭)

@Lilymoon You forgot loaded 💰💶💵🤑

@LunarOrbit that's bonus 🤑

@GuiltyBiStander
And if both? Marriage right away? 👀

@Magenta Yeah, without reciprocation. 🤣

@Magenta I've spoken with many qualified candidates. What makes you stand out from the rest for this, um, position?

@Sutten anymore fantasies

@romell Are you saying that a woman wanting those things is silly? Or are you flirting with her? 🧐

@Sutten Yes bare minimum, don't settle for less please.

@Heartlander That's a good one but even the best of people sometimes under mind us by mistake.

@REMsleep Yep, and that's often the cause of the breakup or weakening of the bond between partners.

@AnotherHe Don't know why people cheat. They can just break up. Very selfish.

@solitaire if only i could reply you..lol.. but, I've seen who she truly is, earlier, but i decided to perceive her differently.. so, basically it's my fault too

@Santino34 That sounds pretty sexist if that's the first thing and the main requirement that you go to. Especially because it's important for both parties to listen to each other. I agree with traditional gender roles for the most part but you saying that in that way could be seen as a 🚩
Maybe you'd prefer someone who was raised in an environment to be very submissive and that's ok if this is your preference.

@REMsleep I didn’t even finish reading it
I’m just referring to my self and my choice is a real biological female to be involved with emotionally
What’s in your head and how you interpret material you read is on YOU, I’m only responsible for what I believe, think and do.🍷

@metaldog $ 🤑 hmmmmmm respect the honesty but that requirement may cause a few issues.

@Lilymoon Yeah. List was too long. Ran out of internet. 😂😂😂

@Fa8393 You expect a partner to obey you?

@REMsleep yes I want her to know what is expected of her .

@REMsleep I have found one and got married.

@Donotfolowme So glad for you. I love to hear about good marriages. We need couple like you to show others it came be done.

@REMsleep Thanks, I appreciate it.
It took a long while. Every relationship needs patience and tolerance. Nobody is perfect and we all are human beings. If we realize this, we would find out a loving, understanding and caring person caring for us.

@Justenjoyit That's ok if you don't have traditional values.
I understand the concept but I personally couldn't do it. My feeling would be hurt.
Relationships are work unfortunately. It takes work to build trust and be vulnerable.

@REMsleep Because I am a very capable person, I have yet to meet anyone who can bring something to the table other than their needs and problems.

@V00doo I’ve ticked all the boxes let’s get married 🥺

@SW-User 🥹